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What Expecting to Die Young Taught Me About Living a Happy Life

“I’ve come to trust not that events will always unfold exactly as I want, but that I will be fine either way. The challenges we face in life are always lessons that serve our soul’s growth.” ~ Marianne Williamson

At the age of nine, I was sitting in a doctorā€™s office at Baylor University with both of my parents when we were all told I wouldnā€™t live to see twenty-three. The doctor casually told us my dad would probably never get to walk me down the aisle and Iā€™d likely never make my mom a grandmother, but there was great …

How Gratitude Journaling Can Boost Your Mood and Change Your Life

ā€œGratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend.ā€ ~Melody Beattie

A few years ago I had an ulcer and I would get dizzy after almost every meal. There was a point when I was afraid to eat. I lost twenty pounds when I didn’t need to lose weight.

I wasn’t sleeping well.

I was a complete wreck inside.

It took me two and half …

Your Enthusiasm is Contagious, So Share Your Passion Loud and Proud

ā€œEnthusiasm is the electricity of life.” ~Gordon Parks

Have you ever noticed how powerful enthusiasm is? It can be contagious.

If a friend or someone around us is enthusiastic thereā€™s a certain energy or presence that shines from them that can be infectious. It doesnā€™t even matter what theyā€™re enthusiastic about; if weā€™re in their presence, itā€™s easy to be lifted up by their energy.

Iā€™ve always loved seeing people express their enthusiasm. It brings such an authentic quality of who they are through the things that excite them. The thing theyā€™re excited about may seem insignificant to others, but …

Why Iā€™m Choosing to Be Happy Now, Not When I Feel Like a Success

“The meaning of life is just to be alive. It is so plain and so obvious and so simple. And yet, everybody rushes around in a great panic as if it were necessary to achieve something beyond themselves.” ~Alan Watts

I love how instant modern life has become.

When Iā€™m hungry, without really moving, I can instantly get food delivered to me. Pizza, of course. When Iā€™m hungry for knowledge, at the touch of a button on my mobile, I can discover answers to the questions Iā€™m pondering. No need to head to the library to search for and flick …

Why Remembering Youā€™re Going to Die Is the Best Motivator

ā€œDonā€™t be afraid of death; be afraid of an unlived life. You donā€™t have to live forever; you just have to live.ā€ ~Natalie Babitt

Once a month, I visit the local cemetery and walk around. Iā€™m not there to visit anyone in particular. Iā€™m there to remind myself of my own mortality.

And it always wakes me up.

I soak in the energy: I read the simple legacies on the tombstones, from young children to those who made it to 100 years old. Iā€™m not morose. Iā€™m not negative. Iā€™ve simply found the greatest motivational tool in the world, and …

New Tiny Buddha Shirts and iPhone Cases, Just in Time for the Holidays!

Hi friends!Ā Iā€™m excited to share that Iā€™ve recently launched a new selection of shirts and iPhone cases on Tiny Buddha, with five new designsā€”meaning nine in totalā€”just in time for the holiday season!

I’m also happy to share that the new store offers much better shipping times than I was able to offer in the past.

The new designs are based on some of the most popular memes Iā€™ve shared on social media. My personal favorite is the ā€œPeace Love Musicā€ one.

Each design is available in multiple shirt styles: tee, v-neck, tank, sweatshirt, and hoodie, with a range …

How I Escaped the Negative Thought Loop That Kept Me Down and Stuck

ā€œYou will never be free until you free yourself from the prison of your own false thoughts.ā€ ~Philip Arnold

Do you ever doubt yourself?Ā As if no matter how hard you try, itā€™s never enough.

Do you always tell yourself that you could do more? Or that somebody else is doing more, so why arenā€™t you on their level?

Iā€™m not good enough.

Do you keep your thoughts to yourself because you feel as though your opinion doesnā€™t matter?

Iā€™m not smart enough.

Or how about when youā€™re casually scrolling through social media? You see beautiful people taking such …

50 People Share What They’re Grateful to Do Every Day

At night, when you think about how you spent your day, how often do you focus on all the things you had to do?

I worked. I ran errands. I went to the gym. I made dinner.

And when you tell someone about this kind of day, how often do you do it with a less-than-enthused tone?

I suspect this is the norm for many of us, at least during the workweek.

Commitments, to work and family, can engulf our lives and seem like chores, not choices and chances.

I distinctly remember one day, years ago, when my day felt …

Lifeā€™s Too Short to Be Too Busy: How to Make the Most of Your Time

ā€œSlow down. Calm down. Donā€™t worry. Donā€™t hurry. Trust the process.ā€ ~Alexandra Stoddard

Ā Heard in the offices across America…

ā€œIā€™m so busy and have no time!ā€

ā€œHow is it almost 2019 already?!ā€

ā€œIā€™ll sleep when Iā€™m dead…ā€

Weā€™re so focused on the next deadline, getting the next promotion, having the approval of our managers and peers alike that we push, push, push all the time.

Oh, how I can relate! I worked in corporate America commuting into NYC (two hours each way!) as the VP of marketing at a major media company. And I worked… a lot.

When I

Why Moving Didnā€™t Solve Any of My Problems

ā€œWherever you go, you take yourself with you.ā€ ~Neil Gaiman

When I had the chance to relocate to Vancouver some years ago, the opportunity also came with the distinct need to try something new and leave my comfort zone. To be quite honest, I had also become frustrated with many things in my life at the time: work, friendships, relationships including family, and the general ā€œnoiseā€ that I felt I couldnā€™t avoid.

I was beginning to lose my temper more easily. I found excuses to shorten visits with family and friends or to avoid visiting in the first place. …

3 Things the Dying Taught Me About Living Well

“Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever.” ~Mahatma Gandhi

I am a hospice chaplain.

I provide spiritual care to the dying and their families.

I do this by being present with them. I listen to their fears, worries, joys, concerns, and regrets. I listen carefully to what is said, and attend thoughtfully to what is not said.

When people find out what I do for a living, the reaction is almost universal: ā€œWow, that must be hard. I could never do it.ā€

I totally get it. In fact, years before doing …

The ABCs of Personal Growth: How to Live a Meaningful, Fulfilling Life

ā€œLife is change. Growth is optional. Choose wisely.” ~Karen Kaiser Clark

Throughout my life, Iā€™ve moved countries, studied a foreign language, changed careers, launched a business, run a half marathon, written a book, faced agonizing loss and grief, won awards, been deeply hurt, created awesome charity campaigns, lived with huge uncertainty and pain, found love and friendships to cherish, and given birth to three miraculous humans.

Throughout these and plenty more crazy, insane, complex, and utterly beautiful life events, I have collected treasured building blocks that help me live a life of meaning, purpose, and joy every single day.…

How I Found Happiness by Facing the Past I Worked So Hard to Escape

ā€œTen years from now, make sure you can say you chose your life, you didnā€™t settle for it.ā€ ~Mandy Hale

I spent most of my youth trying to escape. From the mother who drank too much and the violent men she dated and from the kids at school who made fun of me for wearing the same clothes every week.

I felt shame and guilt because I believed that my circumstances defined who I was, which meant that I was unimportant, unworthy even.

So, I created elaborate imaginary worlds where I was smart, successful, and often saved the day. Where …

What Heartbreak Taught Me About Creating My Own Happiness

ā€œWe accept the love we think we deserve.ā€ ~Stephen Chbosky

A few years ago I was completely heartbroken, and I thought I would never find love. Iā€™d gone through a string of painful breakups over a number of years, but I thought Iā€™d finally met someone I could be with for the long haul. Iā€™d been dating this guy for a few months, and everything seemed to be going smoothly, untilĀ one day he stopped calling. Just like that, he disappeared from my life. It was as if we had never met.

What was worse, he didnā€™t tell me why …

The Key to Happiness: Compare Less, Be More

“Happiness is found when you stop comparing yourself to other people.” ~Unknown

Stepping off the bus I was in shock.

This tiny thing? With no doors in the doorways and no glass in the windows?

This little place? With walls that looked like they were lone survivors of war?

I wouldā€™ve been sure it was abandoned if it wasnā€™t for the hundreds of little footprints on trampled soil making up the floor of the school. A giant field with two erect logs on either side served as goals for what was supposed to be a gym. I always thought these …

We All Need to Define “Success” for Ourselves

ā€œThereā€™s no such thing as what you ā€˜shouldā€™ be doing with your life.ā€ ā€“Lori Deschene

How often have you thought about what success means to you?

If youā€™re anything like my younger self, that would be almost never. Itā€™s not that I didnā€™t want to be successful. Itā€™s just that it wasnā€™t something Iā€™d given much thought to. No one ever asked me about it or even encouraged me to think about success. Iā€™d just absorbed it from the people and culture around me, watching how they lived and what was important to them.

From what I saw around …

Why I Chose Authenticity Over Fitting In or Standing Out

ā€œTo be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight; and never stop fighting.ā€Ā ~EE Cummings

For many years I felt like a fish out of water, but I desperately wanted to belong in the pond. I grew up wanting to be ā€˜normal,ā€™ to fit in and be like everyone else. As a result, I was not in touch with who I was because I didnā€™t think there was another choice.

The blueprint was clear: find a …

How to Stop Worrying About the Future and Start Living Your Life Now

“Every tomorrow has two handles. We can take hold of it with the handle of anxiety or the handle of faith.” ~Henry Ward Beecher

Retirement. A word that fills people with both excitement and fear.

On the one hand, weā€™re excited about the possibilities that retirement brings. The possibility to travel, to try new hobbies, to live our lives the way we want.

On the other hand, we worry about whether weā€™ll have enough money to survive until that unknown age at which weā€™ll die. And maybe not just survive but to actually thrive in our later years.

That …

Life Is in the Little Things: Finding the Extra in the Ordinary

ā€œThe difference between ordinary and extraordinary is that little extra.ā€œ ~Jimmy Johnson

ā€œWrite about what we did today,ā€ my daughter said. She knows I often write once she is asleep.

Dully I thought, ā€œWhat we did today wasnā€™t that exciting.ā€ Yet, for her, it obviously was.

She gets lost in her experiences, deeply entrenched in the realms of her imagination that continue to weave each experience she is having.

From my perspective, I took the kids and their friends to a nature reserve so they could get muddy and play. I needed them outside, away from the house where cabin …

Iā€™ve Learned That I Deserveā€¦

When I was growing up, my parents never spoke to me about what I ā€œdeserved.ā€ They spoke to me a lot about what was ā€œexpected.ā€ They were very clear about that.

They expected me to be tough, hard-working, well-read, and smart. They expected me to help others, especially those struggling on the margins. They sent me to work in impoverished parts of the world, so I would realize I was very lucky and really had nothing to complain about. They expected me to go to church every week, to be honest, to help my brothers, my cousins, my community. …