Don’t Worry, Be Happy

There have been lot times when I get super emotional for my friendship. Not lot…in fact almost every day I think of 2 3 freinds…how they have conducted themselves…then will compare myself to them and ultimately I find that I possess no good quality that they do because of which I am still lagging behind in my career…
I like laughing…but when I do so..There have been times that people take me very easy and cracked whichever type of jokes they like on me…and I feel very bad…I always, after such incidents, convince myself to just not be so much good and cool with them..For they might take you lightly again.I want them to respect my emotions..I take that on me…that probably it is my mistake…If I cannot be serious about myself how can they be about me.

I’m sorry to hear about what you’ve been going through. I know how stressful it can be when you get caught up in comparisons. There are some posts on the site that may be helpful to you:

http://dev.tinybuddha.com/blog/when-we-think-other-people-are-better-than-us/

http://dev.tinybuddha.com/blog/stopping-comparisons-reclaim-reality-and-raise-your-self-esteem/

http://dev.tinybuddha.com/blog/stop-comparing-yourself-to-others/

http://dev.tinybuddha.com/blog/stop-making-comparisons-start-valuing-yourself/

You may also want to share your story in the Tiny Buddha forums to connect with others who can relate. It’s free to join here:

http://dev.tinybuddha.com/register

Then you can access the forums here:

http://dev.tinybuddha.com/forums

I hope this helps. You are in my thoughts!

Lori