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    Mollie
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    Hi Anita

    always good to hear from you.
    I have empathy for him, for sure, and at times I feel myself tilting into his sorrow, going into ‘how can I help him’. And when I have offered 🌿 my advice, he dismisses it. He knows best. So there is not much I can offer; I thought I could offer friendship but maybe it is hindering me moving forward and my true liberation…

    Oh! that is distressing, of course it is dog nature but still not pleasant, was the rabbit alive/okay? It is not your or his fault, it is the circle of life ☺️🌿🩷

    #459091
    anita
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    Hi Mollie 🙂

    Good news- I saw the baby rabbit the morning after, in the same location where he was the night before (right before all the drama), just sitting there,and he/ she seemed okay 🙏

    As to whether a friendship with your ex is hindering you moving forward- I figure that if the pattern is you trying to help him and him refusing your efforts, that’s unhealthy for you.

    So, in my mind- either you stop trying to help him, and even more importantly: if you are no longer hoping/ being emotionally invested in him getting better-

    Then better not be engaged with him.

    A healthy friendship/ relationship needs to be one that somehow helps you, or at least one that doesn’t drain you.

    🌿💛🌿 Anita

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    anita
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    * Or better not engage with him

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