Ex reached out after almost two years

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May 8, 2019 at 3:53 pm #292915

Mark
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Connie,

You feel sour from hearing from him. You still care about him deeply.

I believe you can still love and care deeply about someone and not be in a romantic relationship. You can love him from a distance, in absentia as it were.

I wonder what caused the breakup from him. I wonder why the breakup was not peaceful.

Mark

May 8, 2019 at 4:44 pm #292921

Thondit
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Dear Connie ,

Thank for being optimistic and open to your man! My advice is go all out !!!! Accept each again and try to fixed things together and filed the rest under the pillow. Try to forget the past and concentrate with your amazing couple ,,,,, , no smooth relationship without any quarrel . Go with your amazing man. Thanks hello are you there ??

May 8, 2019 at 5:15 pm #292929

Valora
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Did he break up with you 2 years ago, you with him, or was it mutual?

I think you should just maybe give it some time and see if your head clears. Keep getting to know the guy you’ve been seeing since that could potentially go somewhere or develop into something, and if that isn’t an exclusive relationship and you are still wondering if you should give your ex another chance, I don’t think it would hurt to get to know him on a friend level, just to see if he has grown and changed in a similar way that you have or you may not even be compatible now. I’d think your decision would become more clear over some time.

May 8, 2019 at 6:04 pm #292943

Anonymous
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Dear Connie:

September 3- 5, 2017, you shared about this man, your ex boyfriend: “During the course of our relationship, I caught him lying many ties, oftentimes including lies that’s not important or relevant to our relationship. I got tired of confronting because it only led to fights, or his so-called drama. Eventually I lost count of how many times he lied to me… it didn’t occur to me till recently that I started to realize my insecurity was actually caused by his dishonestly… The lies I can immediately name: … his phone was stolen so he couldn’t contact me, his car was smashed the night he disappeared, etc… he’s a great talker, he’s good at selling things with fancy words”.

Earlier this week, May 2019, he texted you that “he missed me every day and was glad that I was happy. He said our breakup had completely broken his heart. And he hadn’t moved on yet…”-

– maybe he is lying, maybe it is his drama, him “selling things with fancy words”?

anita

May 9, 2019 at 10:22 am #293067

Inky
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Hi Connie,

I would concentrate on your current suitor. And if you do mover out of the country, that would end things anyway!

If this guy was a chronic lair, what would have made him change? Consider that he’s only revisiting you because his lies caught up with him.

Best,

Inky
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