Posts tagged with “wisdom”
Live by Your Values and Everything Else Will Fall into Place
âUntil you make peace with who you are, you will never be content with what you have.â ~Doris Mortman
As I sit here writing this, I am still in the middle of a huge shift in my life, a shift that has seen me move from living by other peopleâs values and expectations to identifying and living by my own.
The catalyst for change was a health scare when, on my thirtieth birthday, my doctor told me that I may have cervical cancer. Luckily, I got the all clear, but something had shifted and I realized how dissatisfied with my …
Conscious Choices We Need to Make to Attract Healthy Relationships
âWhen you have a choice to make and donât make it, that is in itself a choice.â ~William James
I have been single for most of my life; sometimes it would seem by choice, and sometimes not. In that time, I have learned and experienced a lot. Some of the things I had thought I wanted changed, and some of the things I thought I didnât want have become things I do.
Over the years I have tried various forms of meeting people, including the âbar method,â online dating, and approaching random strangers in public places. Itâs not that I …
Each Day I Am Grateful For
Source: Positive Outlooks /Â Artwork by Vladimir Kush
Kid Presidentâs Letter to a Person on Their First Day Being Alive
It’s hard to be a person sometimes. That’s where Soul Pancake’s Kid President comes in. In this short video, he lays it all out–everything we need to know to be an awesome person. No matter how far is from your first day on Earth, this is one worth watching!
You Don’t Have to Let Your Anxious Thoughts Control You
âDonât wait for your feelings to change to take the action. Take the action and your feelings will change.â ~Barbara Baron
As a child, anxious thoughts stopped me from doing a lot of stuff, so I missed out on sleepovers, parties, and scout camps some of the time.
Anxiety whispered in my ear that it was always better to avoid, and so it became easy to convince myself I didnât really want to do whatever was on offer. I now recognize those thoughts and donât let them influence my choices.
I remember as a teenager I went to a carvery …
Go Do: Let Go of the Past and Future and Live in the Present
âLife is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance you must keep moving.â ~Einstein
âGo do, youâll learn to just let yourself fall into landslide. Go do, youâll learn to just let yourself give into low tide. Go do!â~Jonsi
I recently heard from a friend whom I had not heard from in over two years. He sent me an email just to check in and see how I was doing, congratulate me on my recent marriage, which he had heard about, and let me know that he had faced some hardship over the past couple of years.
He had …
Sharing Yourself Without Worrying About Being Accepted
âHappiness is really a deep harmonious inner satisfaction and approval.â ~Francis Wilshire
Acceptance.
This is a word we often toss around, but what does it truly mean? Perhaps the meaning of it ultimately resides within its beholder. I know I have certainly achieved my own understanding of what acceptance means to me and for me, and so far, this definition is ever evolving.
On November 6, 2013, I returned to the United States after having lived in Australia for two and a half years. I spent the majority of my time there studying and practicing yoga and teaching yoga and …
You Are Good Enough and You Have Nothing to Prove
âYou alone are enough. You have nothing to prove to anyone.â ~Maya Angelou
I sat on a big, cold stone on the beach next to Lake Ontario and watched as the waves lapped upon the shore.
To my right, there were swans and ducks floating on the water. The swans were graceful and beautiful as they glided along the shoreline, and the ducks were being their usual kooky selves.
It always made me laugh to watch them dive underwater, kick their webbed feet in the air, and wag their feathered bums back and forth. They were so natural, so unaware …
How to Know What Youâre Really Feeling So You Can Feel Better
âThe more you hide your feelings, the more they show. The more you deny your feelings, the more they grow.â ~Unknown
Throughout my life, I thought of myself as someone who felt too much. I was very gregarious and could easily be consumed by moments of joy and celebration. But when I was alone, I could be overtaken by angry, self-destructive voices that would dominate my mind.
By senior year of high school, I was spending many hours of the day crying, and had taken to pinching and punching myself until I was black and blue.
I felt I needed …
Dealing and Healing After Loss: 9 Tips to Help You Get Through the Day
âOur strength grows out of our weaknesses.â ~Ralph Waldo Emerson
If you donât know where to start, start anywhere. I keep telling myself that every time I am stuck.
Well, Iâve been a widow for year and a half, and I am twenty-four years old. Maybe thatâs the way to start here.
My husband had cancer. We tried to enjoy the time before his passing as best we could, so he would die with memories, not dreams. And I guess that the fact that he died content is quite an accomplishment in our relationship.
But it doesnât change …
Finding the Strength to Leave: Run Toward, Not Away
“You donât need strength to let go of something. What you really need is understanding.” ~Guy Finley
It was 11pm on a Monday night and yet again I was chatting online with my friend about the woes of my failing marriage. “I just need a knight in shining armor to take me away from all of this,” I said.
“Not real life,” she said, “but you’re bright and strong, and you’ll be fine.”
I didn’t feel strong. All I could see was a mountain of practical reasons why I had to stay in this relationship: our two-year-old twins, the …
We Need to Give People the Freedom to Choose What’s Right for Them
âYou must love in such a way that the other person feels free.â ~Thich Nhat Hanh
Iâve read a lot of articles about loving without attachment and respecting other peopleâs choices, but it wasnât until one day that I truly got it. And I will tell you what happened to me that day.
My boss and I have a very special relationship. He’s the boss everyone would want to have. He appreciates me for my work and for everything I do. He thinks that I’m a great kid. Every time he has the chance, he praises my results and he …
How to Get Out of Your Own Way and Let Your Life Shine
“I wish I could show you, when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light of your own being.” ~Hafiz of Shiraz
I have been on a quest to be happy for as long as I can remember.
I thought I had looked everywhere. I tried relationships, work, adventure travels, and a life filled with friends and activity, but still I felt anxious. I was disenchanted with life. Years of therapy attempting to work out my problems didn’t give me the sense of peace I somehow thought was possible.
I knew there had to be more, and I …
Finding a Path When You Feel Like Two Different People
âBy accepting yourself and being fully what you are, your presence can make others happy.â ~Jane Roberts
When I was a little girl, I played a lot of imaginary games and spent a lot of time on my own. I wasnât particularly popular. I was a complete goodie-two-shoes.
I had no idea what I wanted to be when I grew up. When people asked me, sometimes I said a vet, sometimes an interior designer, sometimes just to work for my parents who have a fruit importing business. Truth is, I had no idea.
Why do people think a child would …
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