Chole Rose,

Good for you for using mindfulness, intention, and conscious choice with loving kindness for yourself.  I appreciate you sharing your experience honestly.

Great testimonial!

Mark

Hi Chloe Rose,

It’s good to reframe the situation (which is all too common).

Life is long. We all eventually acquire groupies and admirers.

Don’t beat yourself up for being all too human. Everyone has secrets in their hearts. Even, I bet, your husband.

It’s good you’re doing the right thing.

We all have people waiting in the wings for us. It’s kind of a wonderful thought that we do. I think attraction for other people it’s a carryover from caveman times when our mates would die after a few years together rather than after several decades which we experience now. Again, don’t beat yourself up.

Best,

Inky

Chloe, I read your post and I’m glad your overcoming your situation with that man. You have a lot of strength. I’m happy I’m not the only one that has gone through this situation while currently in a relationship. I find that working out really helps me not thinking about the other man because I think about me and how I feel within my inner self. So far it’s been one month for me and I’m finding it sort of hard to move on but I know time heals. Again thank you for sharing your post.