Posts tagged with “wisdom”
The Lies We Tell Ourselves About Our Worth and How Iāve Let Them Go
āYou either walk inside your story and own it or you stand outside and hustle for your worthiness.ā Brene Brown
I was shaking and sweating with fear as I stood in front of my graduate professor for the final test of the semester. I was twenty-two years old at the time and felt like a fish out of water in my graduate program. I dreamed of being a professor, studying, and writing, but deep down I thought, āIām not smart enough. I donāt fit in here.Ā No one likes me.ā
When my religion professor announced that the final wasn’t a …
How the Deathbed Meditation Can Bring You Clarity, Purpose, and Joy
āDeath may be the greatest of all human blessings.ā ~Socrates
Thereās a lot of beauty and value in positive, light-and-love approaches to mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being.
But I challenge you to go a little deeper and to face something weāre all going to experience eventually:
I know this may sound macabre, bizarre, or downright unappealing. But hear me out!
There is a certain power and beauty in consciously visualizing and meditating on oneās death.
What could be more awakening and more revealing than putting your current self into the perspective of your dying selfāinto your last few …
How Befriending My Anxiety and Depression Helped Ease My Pain
āāWhat should I do?ā I asked myself. āSpend another two miserable years like this? Or should I truly welcome my panic?ā I decided to really let go of wanting to block, get rid of, or fight it. I would finally learn how to live with it, and to use it as support for my meditation and awareness. I welcomed it for real. What began to happen was that the panic was suspended in awareness. On the surface level was panic, but beneath it was awareness, holding it. This is because the vital first step to breaking the cycle of the …
How Iām Honoring My Values Even Though I Have Conflicting Priorities
āNo matter what kind of stuff you tell the world, or tell yourself, your actions reveal your real values. Your actions show you what you actually want.” ~Derek Sivers
I need to be a productivity rockstar if I stand a chance of accomplishing everything important to me.
There’s a book I want to write, a course I want to create, and a chance to work with an award-winning author that has given me endless projects I want to pursue.
These are exciting, but they’re creating a ton of anxiety in my life.
Why?
Because they’re at odds with being the …
3 Painful Consequences to Overgiving and People-Pleasing
People-pleasing, overhelping, overgivingāwe can give it lots of different names, but the consequences of putting yourself last all the time are generally the same.
You may have been raised to see giving and helping as virtuous things.Ā And hear me say, they are. I believe wholeheartedly that itās a beautiful thing to serve, support, and help others. However, people-pleasers donāt always know when to draw the line; they give and give almost as if they have an endless supply of time, energy, and resources.
Surprisingly, people-pleasing is often about control.Ā Itās rooted in your need to try andĀ boost your …
How to Mindfully Temper Road Rage and Make Driving Less Stressful
“Smile, breathe, and go slowly.” ~Thich Nhat Hanh
As a Lyft driver, I once spent significant time out on the roadāa setting rife with provocations and stressors.
Driving can feel like a constant challenge to employ mindfulness instead of giving way to destructive emotions like impatience and frustration. Meditation can be difficult to practice when you’re navigating a vehicle (demanding as both activities are of your full attention)ātry channeling all your senses into it, and you’ll likely plow over a pedestrian or end with your car in a ditch.
Navigating the road mindfully, though, doesnāt have to mean closing your …
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