Posts tagged with “wisdom”
How to Recreate Meaning Now That the Pandemic Has Upended Life
EDITORāS NOTE: You can find a number of helpful coronavirus resources and all related Tiny Buddha articles here.
āItās not the events of our lives that shape us, but our beliefs as to what those events mean.ā ~Tony RobbinsĀ
Like millions of others, I lost my job in the wave of the coronavirus pandemic. I was teaching on a small island in the Caribbean. I discovered a purpose through my work, loved the peaceful nature of the island, and, true to my introverted nature, loved living in my too-quiet community. It was a job and a life that I …
What Hurts Us the Most in Unhealthy and Unloving Relationships
“Once we make our relationship choices in an adult way, a prospective partner who is unavailable, nonreciprocal, or not open to processing feelings and issues, becomes, by these very facts, unappealing. Once we love ourselves, people no longer look good to us unless they are good for us.” ~David Ricco
One thing I particularly love is caring about someone and loving them. Being able to do so gives me a great sense of connection, satisfaction, and purpose. Itās fulfilling, life-enhancing, and simply feels wonderful.
All my life Iāve chased relationships so that I could get the love I need. …
8 Quick and Easy Meditation Techniques to Calm Your Anxious Mind
Have you ever found it hard to motivate yourself to do something that was good for you, only to eventually do it, feel amazing, and wonder why you waited so long?
Thatās what meditating was like for me. Even though I knew I could do it for only five minutes each day to feel calmer, less stressed, and more present, I found excuses not to do it regularly for years.
Iād tell myself five minutes wasnāt enough; I really needed thirty or more, and I didnāt have that time, so why bother?
Iād lament that I was too anxious to …
How I Know Iām Strong (and You Are Too)
āIf there’s ever a tomorrow when we’re not together, there’s something you should remember: You’re braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think. But the most important thing is, even if we’re apart, I’ll always be with you.ā ~A.A. Milne
Two years ago, I was anticipating a monumental shift. I couldnāt tell you what had changed around that time, but my mindset was moving away from the brasher side of my natural, projected extroversion and seeking solace in the comforts of solitude.
It felt like the waves drawing back before a tsunami, and over …
Family Estrangement: 3 Stories and the Advice You Need to Hear
āHome is not a place, itās a feeling.ā ~Cecilia Ahern
This post is written by three people from different parts of the world who came together to share their story of family estrangement and their choice not to reconcile.
To the outside world, it seemed none of us were neglected. Our parents were well-educated. We grew up in decent homes, were given good educational opportunities, and had financial support. We looked like we came from perfect families, butā¦.
Jenās Story
On March 24, 2019, I received a chilling text from my sister that Grandma was found unconscious in her …
When You Donāt Like Being Nice: What to Do Instead
āDonāt trade your authenticity for approval.ā ~Unknown
As a nice person, I am often conflicted because sometimes I donāt enjoy being nice. Sometimes I act nice out of moral obligation or because Iām trying to be consistent with my perceived identity.
Do you view yourself as āniceā? Do others describe you as āniceā? Do you always enjoy being āniceā? If you are unsure how you are perceived by others, ask friends and family to describe you.
Iāve been told how nice I am all my life, by family, friends, coworkers, and even bosses. It was a huge part of my …
How to Appreciate Your Body (During COVID-19 and Always)
EDITORāS NOTE: You can find a number of helpful coronavirus resources and all related Tiny Buddha articles here.
āImagine if we obsessed about the things we loved about ourselves.ā ~Unknown
I used to have a plaque with this quote prominently displayed in my waiting room. Sadly, itās somehow gotten misplaced over the years.
What I remember most about the plaque was how it engaged, or disengaged, the people who noticed it. Did they mention the quote when they came into my office? Pointedly ignore it? Let me know that self-love is what they want for themselves? Or express skepticism …
The Most Important Lessons We Can Take from This Pandemic
EDITORāS NOTE: You can find a number of helpful coronavirus resources and all related Tiny Buddha articles here.
āAnd the people stayed home. And read books, and listened, and rested, and exercised, and made art, and played games, and learned new ways of being, and were still. And listened more deeply. Some meditated, some prayed, some danced. Some met their shadows. And the people began to think differently.ā ~Kitty OāMeara
While this pandemic is turning out to be a very confusing and difficult time for many people, it is undoubtedly giving humanity an incredibly rare opportunity to learn some …
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