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  • in reply to: I need advice urgently #367273
    aetharyn
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    Hello Anita,

     

    thank you so much for your reply. Itā€™s very interesting your point of view and it makes a lot of sense… Normally the menā€™s relationships towards womenā€™s is based on their relationship with their mother, right?

    He knows he has this ā€œstrange sideā€ that heā€™s ashamed of. He says that, when he was alone, he used to think of not ā€œnormalā€ things. He is very private and this was a great confession from him, I think.

    You think maybe she wants him to be with me? This is so confusing… I am giving a new chance to him but if another thing like this happens, Iā€™ll quit.

     

    thanks!

    in reply to: I need advice urgently #367264
    aetharyn
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    Oh sorry and another thing I must say…

    He had only one conversation, this one recently. With the other women he was just checking, didnā€™t talk to them. That is true. He said that to me and I know itā€™s true because I saw it. I am not apologizing him, just to clear this fact.

     

    thanks!

    in reply to: I need advice urgently #367262
    aetharyn
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    Hello,

    Thank you all for your replies. Thinking better, yes there is no need to play a ā€œgameā€.

    I am still in the relationship because he apologized and asked for a second chance. He said he is willing to change. This is his ā€œdark sideā€ (he donā€™t like to talk about) taking over. He was so ashamed by everything that happened that I think I should give him a second chance. We all make mistakes and I think everyone deserves another chance. Am I thinking bad?

    I am getting help now from meditation and books and this is comforting me. I am trying to work on myself and my self esteem. I want to be confident and independent. Loving myself is the best I can do now.

    His mother is the problem here… Because I am sure she thinks itā€™s my fault because I invaded his privacy and she is the one trying to turn his head. I saw his first reaction and was completely different from the attitude next day (after talking with her). I bet she said ā€œItā€™s not your fault my son, she should had never spy on youā€… Something like this.
    She will not get into me, I am stronger than she thinks. It bothers her that he is still with me, so she is playing her little game. I donā€™t care what she thinks.

     

    Thanks!

     

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