Tiny Wisdom: On the Illusion of Tomorrow

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“There is more to life than increasing its speed.” -Gandhi

If only tomorrow were here.

You’d have that promotion you feel you’ve earned. Your bank account would have an extra zero or two. You’d be finished with the improvements on your house, and ready for new ones to make it even more comfortable.

Your kids would be in that school you can’t yet afford. Closer to graduation. Closer to adulthood. Closer to leaving your home.

You could plan that vacation you’ve wanted to take. And take it. And come back. And want for another.

If only tomorrow were here.

You’d be one day too late to enjoy today’s sunset.

Twenty-four hours too late to savor today’s lunch, today’s cool breeze, today’s little lessons.

One night too late to tell someone you love them—someone who could move, or change, or even fade away.

Smack dab in the middle of another today, when everything is still imperfect. And yet still so beautiful.

Tomorrow will come, and tomorrow will go. Take a deep breath and enjoy right now. This is what is real.

*This is an updated version of a post from September, 2009. Photo by lostintheredwoods.

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23 responses to “Tiny Wisdom: On the Illusion of Tomorrow”

September 23, 2009

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September 23, 2009

chrisshon

This is a great message!
September 23, 2009

Lexi

I agree!!
September 24, 2009

Alban Fenle

That is how the show will go on, isn’t it? But tomorrow will never come, unless one refuses to follow the dictates of one’s mind in separation. Then, what happens in this present moment? If one really choses to be here and now, a new world opens up wherein pain and sickness and death disappear. This moment is the closest one can come to eternity in this world. There is no other time. Everything is happening here and now, everything that we always project into tomorrow.
September 24, 2009

Name

This is a poem.
October 3, 2009

mwarthur

Seneca of ancient Rome said as much. Have been reading some of his life and comments(see Alain de Botton book) and cannot stop thinking about that. That is how it is, one moment we are and the next we are not, so it is best to be aware of the NOW. Hard to do though, still worthwhile trying.
October 8, 2009

Anon

Guess I'll post up then.
October 8, 2009

Anon

Guess I’ll post up then.
June 29, 2011

winsomebella

I’m so guilty of this. Thanks for the kind reminder.
June 29, 2011

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June 29, 2011

Lori Deschene

You are most welcome!
June 29, 2011

Guest

Great message Lori!
June 29, 2011

Jennifer

Yes, I have a problem with looking ahead because I don’t like what’s going on now. Lately, I’ve been telling myself: “This is my moment.” to remind myself that even though I may not like sitting in traffic or feeling sick, it’s where I am at that moment.
June 29, 2011

Anu

Beautiful post!!!!

What is now is ours. The future is still a mystery.
June 29, 2011

kim79

Needed to read this today..
June 29, 2011

Zentao

Ja, lebe Heute im Hier und Jetzt, den Morgen ist es zu spät
Danke für den guten Text
Liebe Grüsse zentao
June 29, 2011

Mind Whisperer

This is great! I love it.Could I please add this within my blog this week?
Of course it will all point back to you and your blog with a links and your name etc.
Thank you. very moving
Tony Parker
http://www.themindwhisperer.net
June 30, 2011

Nick Bryant

Dear Lori,Although I’m in favour of taking a deep breath and having a pause for thought, I’m sorry Lori but I do not agree with the view of just living for the “moment”, or just living for “now”, that your post suggests.

As I just happened to have a map in front of me showing world time zones, which means it is yesterday, today, and tomorrow at the same time (Einstein tells us that time is relative to our frame of reference); and there have been various occasions during my current life when I have nearly died, and others when I could have been badly injured; I have to admit that I am somewhat biased though.

Buddha teaches us:”The mind is everything. What you think you become.”Buddha teaches us:”The way is not in the sky. The way is in the heart.”
If we don’t like how we feel about the past, we always have the option to change our mind.We always have the option to change our mind, if we don’t like how we feel about the present.If we don’t like how we feel about the future, we always have the option to change our mind.
We always have the option to listen to our heart for what we want to keep the same amidst the changes. Remembering that thinking is not talking, if it’s only to yourself.
For me tomorrow is a wholesome brand new beginning when something wonderful could happen. Such as being alive.Namaskar.
June 30, 2011

Lori Deschene

Thank you, Amanda!
June 30, 2011

Lori Deschene

I think most of us do that every now and then. A contributor named Erin Lanahan wrote something powerful that’s been helpful to me: “Freedom is where my feet are.” It always reminds me to come back to the present moment, instead of dwelling on the past or the future.
June 30, 2011

Lori Deschene

Feel free to share this on your blog. I would appreciate it if you would include my byline and bio with a link back to Tiny Buddha!
June 30, 2011

Lori Deschene

Hi Nick,

I responded to this comment on Facebook, so I won’t paste it here. I think you saw it there. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!

Lori
July 1, 2011

Mindfulsearcher

“if only” is one of the most dangerous phrases in the english language. by always (or often) thinking “if only,” we defer the happiness and peace that could be ours now. thanks for the post!