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why is this happening,isnt this too much,just weird in my opinion

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  • April 15, 2018 at 9:00 am #202507
    Anonymous
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    Dear alexa05:

    I suppose it is convenient for him to sleep in her house, that he doesn’t have elsewhere to stay the night and/ or that a stay in a hotel costs money he doesn’t want to spend, plus he can be in the company of the dogs he loves. Not weird to me.

    A man sleeping in his ex girlfriend/ wife’s house would make almost every woman uncomfortable, so I understand your discomfort with it. But as far as his motivation being possible convenience, saving money and spending time with his dogs, I don’t see these motivations as weird or as indications he things that you are “an idiot/fool”

    Congratulations by the way for no longer being in a relationship with the man you posted about March of last year!

    anita

    April 15, 2018 at 2:38 pm #202545
    Mark
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    alexa05,

    So why can’t he stay with one of two friends or mother?

    I would not worry about whether or not he makes you look like a fool.  I would be more concerned if you are speaking your truth or not, that you two have good communication, that you are able to do so without worrying about drama.

    Talk to him.  Tell him your concerns.  This is part of having a mature relationship.  You don’t need to bring in “drama” i.e. blaming, yelling.  You can do so in a calm way that honestly express your real feelings.

    Mark

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