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  • #322527

    Lisa
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    My long distance lover and I have been texting back and forth for 5 yrs since the last time we had sex. We text often like almost everyday if not maybe a week go by but it is steady . Prior to the last time we had sex we used to mess around in 1991. He doesn’t live in the area anymore he lives 7 hours south of me.

    This weekend he came up for a family occasion and he must forgotten he told me he was coming up a while ago. Anyway I was waiting for him to call. He calls me last night , which is night before he would be leaving. He asked what was I doing. When he knew I was home he said I am coming over. He wanted to see me. He was playing games because when I said when he said soon. So I said how soon? He never replied back. Then like  20 mins later he replied with  3 smiling kissing emojis and that was that. He made no effort to see me. I don’t get why he even called me.

    #322533

    Inky
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    Hi Lisa,

    Family occasions are often consumed by family. I know when I have an event in an area I often don’t tell friends and family I am there at all. There is no time.

    Maybe that’s what’s happened here.

    Think of it this way: Welp! He missed his opportunity!

    Advice? Cool it with the texting. If this was a game, he now thinks he has the upper hand. *shrug*

    Best,

    Inky

    #322535

    Inky
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    OH! Another thought!

    As men get older, well, *ahem*… maybe he wants to leave things to your imagination rather than have you be disappointed in real life. Little blue pills are $50 for a rodeo!

    #322537

    Lisa
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    I agree with  you totally. Yea thanks I am done with the texting. It has been 5 yrs straight . I mean we’ve known each other 30 but he hardly comes to town since his mom passed away. We were together right before that. Well let’s just say when he does come I don’t always know.

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