Hi StraightNoChaser,

Twin flames are seldom romantically involved. Just because you share the same soul doesn’t mean a relationship would be appropriate (probable age difference, one or both married, distance, related).

If you feel you are losing your mind, it could be Twin Flame Imposter Syndrome. Your souls RIGHT NOW are congruent, but as each of you live your lives, your souls will naturally develop in different places.

I would much prefer to be with my husband who is in my soul group, a boy who the angels set me up with from the same town.

If I met my Twin Flame though, I’d probably kill him.

See the difference?

Wishing you Peace,

Inky

• This reply was modified 5 years, 11 months ago by Inky.

I find twin flames interesting. I’m not sure if I believe it’s really a thing or if it’s just a really, ridiculously good connection that people have sometimes but that still follows the curve of most relationships in that there is a honeymoon phase, then the part where you settle in, and then the breakup that most couples go through when things get tough… but it just feels more intense or like something different because of the deep connection. I do think the idea can be dangerous because it can keep someone holding on for much, much longer than they ever should because they think the connection will bring the person back, and I’ve seen people absolutely obsessing over this idea, which is never healthy.

But I think the closest I’ve ever felt to what they describe would’ve been my most recent ex. I’d actually first read about twin flames when I was still with him. We were just drawn together like magnets when we were near each other. When we’d hug, I could physically feel a sensation like my heart was “lighting up” or glowing (or a feeling like a “heartgasm” for lack of a better term. haha), and he felt like “home” to me. I’d never been with anyone who made me experience those feelings, so I went searching around the internet to figure out if it was just an intense love (I haven’t been in a ton of relationships) or something else. I still think we just have a really deep connection and were a great match for each other, but the troubles of life got in our way and we didn’t handle it well at all.

• This reply was modified 5 years, 11 months ago by Valora.