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  • January 26, 2019 at 1:32 pm #277099
    Mark
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    Kenny,

    When you talk about wanting to trust and in order to do that she has to answer your questions.  What sort of questions are you asking?

    Is she not open on how she feels?  what she is doing or thinking?

    Mark

    January 26, 2019 at 1:41 pm #277101
    Kenny
    Participant

    Little things. Like today. At lunch.

    I said that i had left phone in car. She said that i didnt need it. And i said why? She said im not on my phone. I replied so youre nor twxting? She said no. And i said it just went off.

    And she blew up saying that i was implying she was texting another guy.

    January 26, 2019 at 1:46 pm #277103
    Mark
    Participant

    Kenny,

    I don’t understand. You told her that you left YOUR phone in the car.  She said you did not need it.  She told you that you did not need your phone.  Then from that answer, you asked if she was texting???

    I find that a hard conversation to follow.

    Were you asking her to get your phone or asking her if it was in the car?

    I find it quite a leap for you to ask her if she was texting which had nothing to do in recovering your phone or that she told you that you did not need it.

    I am confused.

    January 26, 2019 at 5:30 pm #277111
    Valora
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    If I’m reading that last one correctly… your phone was in the car but she said you didn’t need your phone because she wasn’t on her phone, then her phone dinged with a text message and you questioned her about it, right?

    It’s entirely possible, though, that she WASN’T texting but someone just randomly sent her a message. Happens to me all the time because I rarely text people first unless I have a question or something. So maybe it would help if you could start thinking of scenarios that give her the benefit of the doubt instead of asking questions about it right away?

    January 27, 2019 at 10:35 am #277201
    Anonymous
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    Dear Kenny:

    Did she say why she is “totally unwilling” to attend couple therapy with you?

    anita

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