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  • #433973
    anita
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    Dear SadSoul:

    A corndog is  a hot dog placed in corn flower and fried. What I saw Sat, was a twist: instead of corn flower, a doughnut mix was used.

    I’ve never heard of cheese in peanut butter sauce“- no, I wrote “Chinese in peanut butter sauce“, meaning Chinese food, not pizza!

    yes I can do Chinese in peanut. Pepperoni cheese thin crispy pizza!“- good, we understand each other, a culinary meeting-of-the minds.

    One of the fur people, the one that cannot be separated from me, joined me outside and is shivering on my knee“- ohhh. It’s winter where you are, isn’t it? Summer here but chilly.

    I read a thing on adhd in women the other day. Over sharing,…can’t shush up… Sounds like me much? And not you at all“- are you/ have you been diagnosed with ADHD? I talk/ share more than I used to.

    anita

    #433974
    anita
    Participant

    Continued:

    Over sharing,…can’t shush up… Sounds like me much?“- funny, I’ve been under the impression that you under-share, keeping things vague or just undisclosed. So much so, that I purposefully avoided asking you questions, not wanting to make you feel uncomfortable.

    anita

     

    #433991
    SadSoul
    Participant

    I haven’t been diagnosed and I have no intention of getting anyone to look into my head. I found it interesting though, that I related to almost all of it, and it got me thinking a bit about some of life’s struggles and coping mechanisms I’ve come up with.

    Hahaha I feel like I’ve told you everything about me 😂 you are right though, that I am shy of saying much more than I have, but only because this is public and I’ve seen things go badly for someone else online. I don’t want a creeper to read everything I tell you, and work out who I am, and where I am.

    A corn dog sounds alright but not a doughnut dog.

    I was going to drive to one of the progeny’s this weekend but things have transpired that I now have a looming dooming bill arising. How stink is that? It’s a big drive too, alongside all the fuel the car gobbles up. Oh if only they’d live close by. I’m sad not to go but also appreciate not doing the drive.

    Tell me about you!!!

    #434010
    anita
    Participant

    Dear SadSoul:

    “You are right though, that I am shy of saying much more than I have, but only because this is public and I’ve seen things go badly for someone else online. I don’t want a creeper to read everything I tell you, and work out who I am, and where I am… Tell me about you!!!“-

    – you don’t want things to go badly for me if I tell you more about me in this public forum, do you?

    anita

    #434023
    SadSoul
    Participant

    True that! I thought you thought I was nutty being so shy of sharing. Also I thought I was the over sharing person who didn’t show interest in you. I thought I should turn that around because I am interested!

    #434026
    anita
    Participant

    Dear SadSoul:

    Oh, I see: there’s been a misunderstanding: you thought that I thought that you are “nutty” and an “over sharing person who didn’t show interest in (me)”, so you tried to show me that you do have an interest in me by inviting me to tell you (more) about me.

    Correcting the misunderstanding: (1) I never thought that you were nutty, I think that you are a delightfully funny, witty, unique soul underneath, (or above) the sad. (2) I never thought, not for a moment, that you are an oversharing person. I thought all along that you are an under sharing person, and I respected that, paying attention to not ask you questions about your personal life.

    So, no need to invite me to share more (“Tell me about you!!!”)- I feel uncomfortable with such an open-ended invitation.

    Can you tell me what topics you feel safe sharing about, and what topics you feel unsafe sharing about, here in the forums?

    anita

     

    #434044
    SadSoul
    Participant

    Correcting the misunderstanding: (1) I never thought that you were nutty, I think that you are a delightfully funny, witty, unique soul underneath, (or above) the sad. (2) I never thought, not for a moment, that you are an oversharing person.

    That made me feel special. Thank you.

    I feel uncomfortable with such an open-ended invitation

    I am sorry. It’s kinda hard to get things right when I can’t see a person’s face and it’s all public and yeah.

    Can you tell me what topics you feel safe sharing about, and what topics you feel unsafe sharing about, here in the forums?

    I don’t know. I’m really boring and only work and do my sport. I don’t have interesting things to talk about. As I write that, I find myself thinking again that I need to do something about that, only I’m too scared of stepping out side of the steps I take each day.

    I’m in a bit of a funk just now. Ha. Something I seem to be perfectly comfortable talking about on this forum. I’ll go and give it all some thought.

    #434047
    anita
    Participant

    Dear SadSoul:

    You are welcome, and you are very welcome to talk about anything you want: this is what your thread/ forum is about, whatever thought and feeling and memory crosses your mind (for as long as you feel safe sharing, of course, as online safety is a great concern of yours.. isn’t it).

    anita

    #434079
    SadSoul
    Participant

    Throwing all caution to the wind, personal life post: one of my floofbreads ripped a toenail off about six weeks ago. The animal hospital said to bathe, antibiotics, and pain relief. It still hasn’t grown back so we’re going for another visit. I hope it’s alright. It’s a lovely animal hospital. They like it if you take all the floofs so the sick one has its friends. Pray for us plz?

    #434097
    anita
    Participant

    Dear SadSoul:

    3 glasses of wine and karaoke at the local taproom (I sang two songs, a Hebrew one and the B. B, Kind The thrill is gone), just came back and I feel wonderful star/ legend- in- my- own- mind. I am reading your post about your pet’s toenail: yes, I am praying for you and for your pet!

    anita

    #434099
    SadSoul
    Participant

    Thank you. Now I’ll give you something to laugh at – warning mentions merrry jju @nna

    I got the oven fixed today and the dude was very chatty. I mentioned, back in the teenage days of one of my offspring that they nicked my coffee grinder and they denied it, but I knew as they used it to grind their stuff up. 20 minutes later the electrician told me he was a police man for 20 years.

    Honestly don’t think I could put my foot in it any deeper than that. Utterly gobsmacked. Slightly worried 😂 but also had a good laugh.

    #434100
    SadSoul
    Participant

    <p style=”text-align: left;”>The good laugh wasn’t with the electrician, it was after he left 😂</p>

    #434101
    SadSoul
    Participant

    That’s so amazing you sang. I’m too chicken to buy I love music.

    #434117
    anita
    Participant

    Dear SadSoul:

    You are welcome. About the coffee grinder story: do you mean that you really slightly worried (or were you joking).. that the former police will retroactively arrest your offspring..?

    anita

     

    #434120
    SadSoul
    Participant

    A bit of both. At the time of the mentioned thing the fellow did a double take which made sense when he said the other. I am a bit anxious there could be repercussions but also thought it was funny.

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