Hi everybody, I’m trying To keep it short, so my bf was showing me some pictures of him from a while back, and when he was going through different albums I happen to see an album cover which had the picture of his ex wife (I know it was her cause I ha seen this picture before when I saw her Facebook profile), besides this picture they also send text messages to each other/communicate on a kind of regular basis (I really don’t know who starts the message or conversation) and sometimes he even sees her in person when she needs a favor from him, should I feel worried and concerned?, he is a great person with me, treats me very nice, but I want him to forget about her an move on. I get they where married for 10 years but they don’t have even have kids together so I don’t get all the back an forth communication between them. She is 58 and he is 46, I am 30.

Plus the WORST is that 2 weeks ago we were together, and when we were going back home, he was checking his messages and he then tells me:” it was my ex wife she texted me that her car broke down” she is with a friend. and then when we get home he tells me let me call her, so he goes outside, why in the world would he not call her in front of me? you see this is what makes my head spin around, , the other thing that I don’t get why the hell does she have to call him to tell him that? and the worst part is that he sometimes goes an caters to her needs (Obviously he did not that day ,he was with Me), I feel he is a fool for being a way to nice after a divorce people usually don’t get this along after a DIVORCE! Honestly I really don’t know what to do, if just get it over with and have a conversation with him an tell him to forget his past and move on, I just cant keep swallowing my thoughts over an over. this has to stop or I am out. Why in the freaking world is he with me if let’s say he still has feelings for her? does not make sense at all.

I talked to him about it and he understood how I felt and said I was right ( I told him that he cannot live in the past and that he needs to move on in order to make this new relationship with me WORK!), he seemed very sincere and told me he was really” into me and he felt very good being with me” and that if I did not like him going back to his hometown(where his ex wife lives) that he was not going to do it anymore. He said this because one weekend he went back to his hometown were his ex wife/Friends lives and guess what he stayed to sleep? in his ex wife’s house, and he had even told me that if it was alright/Ok with me, and I screwed up and told him: ”Go ahead I trust you”!BIG MISTAKE from my behalf since I hated the idea of him staying over at his ex wife’s home, Plus let’s be real ANYONE would get MAD about this!! this is very wrong from his behalf to have done this, It’s not normal to me, especially if you have a new girlfriend.

Does all of this seem sketchy to you? I just wonder if he still going to keep communicating with her even after we had a talk about how I felt about him being stuck in the past and talking/messaging his ex. this woman seems to call him for anything: ”oh my foot got stuck”, ring, ring, ring ”Mobile call” : Oh hi my foot got stuck” would you mind coming to help me. LOL I don’t understand why she calls or message him so much. Or who is the one initiating communication so much?