So i started talking and hanging out with someone for almost two months now. I told em that I don’t just want anything casual, that I have intentions of being in a relationship and he agreed that he was on the same page as me.

However, my anxiety is through the roof!! When we first were getting to know eachother he would text rather quickly and send “good morning” and “good night” texts. But he doesn’t anymore and sometimes doesn’t even reply to a message of mine until the next day. I thought maybe there was someone else or he just wasnt interested in me but he told me he just doesnt like texting all day everyday because he gets busy and enjoys doing his own thing.

He said he would get better at replying and that I should go with the flow and stop questioning so much. idk where my insecurity stems from. Sometimes he goes hours without talking to me but he will be active on social media and follow other girls. we havent made anything official. I fear that I am already becoming a bit much when I express the concerns I have already. Last time we hung out he paid for everything and asked me to go to a show of one of his friends. I don’t live that close so i feel like he goes out of his way to see me but there were also times where he has flaked on me too :/ I don’t know what to think of this.

I know I should just enjoy his company and go with the flow but I cant help but feel anxious and idk why. Whenever a guy has been really into me they would tell me they actually wanna be with me and made more of an effort to exclusively date. But all of this “chilling” gets me so scared. How do I stop this feeling? Or should I just leave the situation completely?