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    Yohanes
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    Hi All

    Just wanna share something's. I just broke up with the girl. I broke up because my fault. I was angry with her and shout to her about bad things. She is actually caring girl.

    So i just come to her house to apologize to her and her mother. I tried to meet her in person to say Im sorry. She doesn't want to meet me.

    Until now the regret always haunting me. I always blame myself. I tried to hurt my self.

    #224683

    anita
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    Dear Yohanes:

    Tell me more, will you? What were you angry about and when you shouted at her, what were the words you shouted at her?

    anita

    #224765

    Yohanes
    Participant

    Hi Anita

    I love her really much. She said she loves me aslo. She always said she loves me very much.

    So in my office i have some issue they think i was cheating so I planned to resign from my job. I dont have any plan about my future. I was so worried. I worried i dont have any earning but still i need money for our future.

    So I have to hand over my job to my partner. The client was in outside of town. So i drive with my partner. My partner got sick and shout at me for no reason so I get down from the car and plan to take bus.

    I took the bus to her office to met her because I think she can confort me. With all the problem i said can i go to your office?

    She said yes. After i arrived at her office she text me why you have your ex pictures in your instagram. I forgot to delete the picture because it was from 2 years ago.

    I got angra and said why you adding more suffer to me. I block her and got drunk. In my drunk time i text her like this

    1. I hate you if you come to my house i will sent you out.

    2. I hate you really much.

    3. I said bad word to her. Im forgot because i was to drunk.

    Right now she doesn't want to meet me and i full of regret.

     

     

    #224769

    anita
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    Dear Yohanes:

    “My partner got sick and shout at me for no reason”- you are referring to your work partner, not your girlfriend, I understand.

    You were very distressed over the work issue, went to your girlfriend looking for comfort but instead of comfort she accused you of wrongdoing for having pictures of your ex girlfriend on your phone from two years before, pictures you forgot to delete.

    You then got angry at your girlfriend, got drunk and messaged her that you hate her.

    Question: those pictures on your phone, was that the first time your girlfriend mentioned them or did she ask you before to delete them and you didn't? Also, how did she manage to see those pictures: did she look into your phone without your knowledge?

    anita

     

    #224777

    Yohanes
    Participant

    Dear anita

    It was on my line home line and Instagram.

    Yes she already told me to delete all my ex pitures but i forgot to delete one picture.

    It was only the shadow pictures not whole face. Anita do you have any whatssap or line number? I would like to talk with you.

    I am so stupid that time and I have some questions. She said she loves me very much.

    I admit i am wrong but why cant she forgive me and start with new fresh. I can change.

     

    Regards

    Yohanes

    #224781

    anita
    Participant

    Dear Yohanes:

    No, I don't have whatssap and I don't communicate with members outside these Forums.

    I understand that she told you that she loves you very much but I don't know if that means that you are the guilty one in the relationship and she is the innocent one. I don't know if part of that love of hers, she keeps blaming you for supposed wrongs. If she does, that behavior is not loving.

    If you want to elaborate on her behavior toward you here on your thread, to look into whether it is loving, or not, and to whether you are the only one needing to change in this relationship (“I can change”), please do.

    anita

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