Hello all,

It’s been a while since my last post here. And this time I have a whole new different story.

Earlier this year (yeah, on the New Year’s day), I met someone. I knew from the very beginning he’s in an open relationship but later I found out he’s actually married.

We hit it off right away and felt the attraction. Everything was great and we agreed it was only for fun and friendship.

However, after several meet-ups, both of us started developing feelings for each other. I’d wait for him to text me and sometimes we just chat about life and whatnot. Like I said, he’s a married man. I feel I have to withdraw myself from this “friendship” before things become too serious and complicated.

We had the “talk” in the past couple of days about our feelings for each other and I am slowly pulling away. He seems to feel that and also becomes quiet.

Today I didn’t hear from him at all besides a text which was to respond to mine from the day before. Before the “talk” we would usually exchange several texts/pictures everyday. I know this decision is made for the best of both parties but I feel kinda depressed and sad.

I hope this feeling is only temporary and I will have the urge to stop responding to him if he ever reaches out to me again ( he said he wanted to keep hanging out with me.) I have been trying to do other things and distract myself from thinking about him. I mean I just met this guy literally three weeks ago. Isn’t it too fast to fall for him just yet? I know he’s married and our connection will eventually come to an end. But I just can’t seem to forget about him.

Any advice will be really helpful.

• This topic was modified 6 years, 9 months ago by Connie.