Hi Anita, sorry its been so long. I felt overwhelmed trying to figure things out, but more positively theres been some progress to share.

Firstly, i think enmeshment with my mother was really a big problem for me. and i can absolutely relate to a lack of my own identity. Ive decided i cant continue with contact, because i also experienced some abuse. But so often ive had a knee jerk reaction to get back in contact.

As for having psychic attacks, i still have a sense of something i dislike from time to time near me, but im not sure where it has comefrom. I feel like i have had a connection with someone which has not been good for me.

Strangely, someone said they could sense something near me and were trying to push it away from me.