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    Jaclyn
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    I am right there with you! I will be starting my last semester of college in the fall, and have absolutely NO idea what I’ll be doing after graduation. I’m an English major, so add that on top of the list of “will I make it” anxieties. I’ve heard all of the Starbucks barista jokes! I am just trying to keep in mind that almost everyone has this fear, and yet everyone must take those first steps. I would say, instead of thinking about what job you could see yourself doing, think about what kinds of things you want to be doing. You want to help people, that’s a noble pursuit that isn’t limited to a 9-to-5 desk job. Do you want to travel? Is there a city you’ve always wanted to live in? Don’t think of graduation as the death of your structured, predictable life, but rather as the end of a hallway that opens up into a world of possibilities. Financial stress is difficult and very anxiety-inducing! I personally follow The Financial Diet on social media and YouTube for better spending tips, if it’s a budget you’re worried about. But you don’t have to have it all figured out right now. It may take you a few not-right jobs to find where you belong. Embrace the challenge! You’ll find where you’re meant to be.

    #199675
    Peter
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    “He who fears he will suffer, already suffers because he fears.” – Michel De Montaigne

    F.E.A.R – False Evidence Appearing Real

    Nothing like living the fear of tomorrow today.

    Sometimes I wonder if the real fear is that we might miss out on the opportunity to worry, so just in case, we imagine a future of suffering just to worry about it now, you know in case it doesn’t happen.

    “A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing.” — George Bernhard Shaw –  “Experiments are necessary for the experiences that create growth and new opportunities.”

    “THE FOUR HEAVENLY FOUNTAINS

    Laugh, I tell you
    And you will turn back
    The hands of time.

    Smile, I tell you
    And you will reflect
    The face of the divine.

    Sing, I tell you
    And all the angels will sing with you!

    Cry, I tell you
    And the reflections found in your pool of tears –
    Will remind you of the lessons of today and yesterday
    To guide you through the fears of tomorrow.”
    ― Suzy Kassem

    #199679
    Peter
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    Some inspiration

    #200661
    Christine
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    Jaclyn and Peter,

    Thanks for posting! I really appreciate your feedback. It’s nice to not feel alone. It’s been a week since I’ve post this. My anxiety has calmed down. I realized I have to live in the moment and just do the best I can.

    Christine

    #200719
    Mark
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    Christine,

    You may want to talk to the college’s career services that should help you in finding a job that would suit your degree.  Have you had any internships?   Do you know how to network?  Do informational interviewing?  You may want to check What Color Is Your Parachute as a guide to navigate finding something that fits you.

    Having some sort of plan would help with your anxiety.

    Mark

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