Hello, I’m here because I’ve recently been having some problems with my fiance.  Since I first starting dating him he had a drinking problem I said something in the beginning and he went from drinking the half gallon to smaller bottle not sure what size exactly but still drinking a bottle a day.  It got to the point to where I couldn’t stand him being so drunk every day.  It started to make me feel very sad and unhappy. I took him to rehab but It wasent his decision he told me he was doing it for me.  After being home for a couple weeks he was doing great no drinking, hanging out with me sober it was really nice but recently I started noticing something was off I started to feel like I was taking care of him and that made me feel really unsatisfied with my relationship and to comfortable to the point I was getting bored. He dosent work right now he plows snow but it hasent snowed much.  He lives off unemployment and i work full time 5 days a week so that really bothers me. These few days I’ve been making assumtions that he has been drinking because his breath smell like booze but he said he wasent but the other night he came home from doing some side job and he was clearly drunk I called him out on it but he said he wasent i told him I wasent stupid and he gave in I got up and gave him the ring back and told him we wasent ready to be in a serious relationship that he needs to figure his life out before he is ready to commit.  I’ve also lost my self in this whole thing I’ve been so busy trying to take care of him I forot about my self I don’ know if I should be more patient with him.  I’ve giving him  everything I have.  I’m a mess.

• This topic was modified 6 years, 9 months ago by Mayra.
• This topic was modified 6 years, 9 months ago by Mayra.