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October 18, 2025 at 4:54 am #451031
Tee
ParticipantDear Roberta,
What animals don’t have though is self-awareness. You said it yourself
Is that really true?
You’re right Roberta, there are animals with very high intelligence, such as dolphins, elephants, horses, whales… And also there are many domesticated animals, such as dogs, even cats, who commune (and have loyalty and feelings) for people who care for them.
What you’ve shared is a very heart-warming story:
I have seen cat come & say goodbye to each member of our meditation group & he also visited others in the area that had looked after him at one time or another. our stories matched up on how he acted with each of us & this was just days before he died & yet he had not visited me in the previous year.
So perhaps animals, or some animals, do have a soul. Perhaps even some form of self-awareness, I don’t know. But I believe we have a different kind of self-awareness, the kind which allows us to observe ourselves, self-reflect and transcend our limitations. I don’t think that’s comparable to animals.
Anyway, my point was not in degrading animals and elevating humans, but just in saying that human mind is not necessarily the source of evil, even though it could be, if we get stuck in selfish, ego ways.
October 18, 2025 at 5:18 am #451032Roberta
ParticipantHi
Many animals in the wild know where to find certain medicines to help themselves although much of the wild habitat has been rapidly altered by humans for their short term gain. Even domesticated cats & dogs eat grass to aid themselves.
Many indigenous belief systems support wholeness, gratitude & interdependence to be in harmony with the land, respecting the elders knowledge, to be stewards of the planet for the generations of human, animal, plant & mineral to come. These people were looked down upon – dehumanized by in general western society colonizing others land all over the planet for hundreds of years & it continues today in the rainforests of South America & Tibet etc, when are we as a species going to learn!October 18, 2025 at 5:58 am #451034James123
ParticipantDear Tee,
Humans are virus meaning is not as body, but as who thinks they are separate then other things.
Moreover, doctor can save a pet yet and kill it at the same time, like animals. Such as, cat can Save a kid from attack of dog, yet crocodile or shark can kill a human being.
That’s why realization is important, body and mind are one with universe. İf there is no water, body dies, if there is no air body dies, etc…
October 18, 2025 at 9:21 am #451042anita
ParticipantDear Tee:
I only read a small part of the message that you addressed to me, but I would like to do so in my own thread, so not to take away/ distract from the topic of this thread. I would very much appreciate (!) if you answer me there, but I respect your choice either way.
🤍🌿 Anita
October 18, 2025 at 9:38 am #451043Tee
ParticipantDear Anita,
sure, I was actually thinking the same – that it would be better to take the conversation to your thread… see you there, gladly! ❤️
October 18, 2025 at 9:43 am #451044anita
ParticipantThank you, Tee ! ❤️
October 18, 2025 at 11:54 am #451048Tee
ParticipantDear James,
Humans are virus meaning is not as body, but as who thinks they are separate then other things.
I agree with this, James. If we think we’re separate from other beings and from mother nature, that leads to huge problems, such as exploitation, destruction of the habitats, pollution… nowadays we’re experiencing the consequences of climate change more and more. And as Roberta said, the Western man has the infamous history of colonization, looking down at and exterminating indigenous populations, pillaging their resources… all very painful points for our “civilization”.
So I agree, there can be great darkness in humans, great cruelty and lack of understanding. At the same time there can be great light too…
Moreover, doctor can save a pet yet and kill it at the same time, like animals. Such as, cat can Save a kid from attack of dog, yet crocodile or shark can kill a human being.
Yes, the animal kingdom has its own rules. Sometimes the animal that is weaker or wounded is the one that gets eaten by a predator. Sometimes nature can be cruel, even as it can be magnificent and soothing. But it is all well, it is according to the laws of nature.
However, we humans should show more mercy, much more mercy towards our fellow human beings, as well as animals and plants too. There’s a saying “Homo homini lupus”. We shouldn’t behave like predators to each other. But unfortunately, we know examples from history and even the present day when this is not the case… where people do behave like predators to each other. And that to me is horrifying 🙁
That’s why realization is important, body and mind are one with universe. İf there is no water, body dies, if there is no air body dies, etc…
I agree – we’re one with the universe. We depend on Mother Earth’s resources for our sustenance. We depend on the Sun too, without which everything on Earth would die. We are so fragile, so small under the stars… and yet, our hearts can be huge and full of love… if we understand, if we connect to who we really are ❤️
October 20, 2025 at 8:07 am #451082Peter
ParticipantHi Anita
“There’s method to the madness when the wisdom traditions warn us not to judge. The truth is, we’re really not that great at it.”- maybe wisdom traditions would be wiser recommend less judging rather than no judging at all..?
I mean, what I read comes across as Thou Shall Not Judge! The hyena in me cannot not judge for long, can yours?
You’re right wisdom traditions, especially when codified, are often interpreted as saying “Do not judge.” But I think that’s a misreading. Look closer, and it’s less “Thou shalt not judge” and more “Judge with care.” as Jesus warns, “Judge not, lest ye be judged,” and then goes on to teach how to judge with humility and self-awareness. That lands in a similar space to what you’re pointing toward.
For me, this aligns with the call to love our neighbors as ourselves. Through the lens of nonduality, everything is connected. So when we judge our neighbors, we’re also judging and revealing ourselves.
As for the hyena: if we’re speaking in Freudian terms, that sounds like the Id. But the Id doesn’t judge, it wants, it craves. It’s the Ego that judges, and the Superego that moralizes. The hyena doesn’t weigh morality; it just pounces.
Personally, I don’t see my Id as a hyena. I think of it more like a Labrador Retriever — enthusiastic, loyal, and occasionally getting itself into trouble. But judgment? That’s the job of the inner monk, not the inner puppy. And the puppy? It can be house trained 🙂
October 20, 2025 at 8:14 am #451083Peter
ParticipantP.S. I’d also argue that the moment a thought arises and gets translated into language, we’re already judging, measuring, dividing, labeling. So again, you’re right: it’s not possible not to judge. That’s why it’s so important to be conscious of what we think and say… and to keep training that puppy.
October 20, 2025 at 11:00 am #451090anita
ParticipantHi non-hyena Peter 🙂
Your post brought the first smile to my face this Mon morning.
(I am using Copilot to refresh my mind with Freud’s terms)
* Peter’s Id/ inner child/ inner puppy: “a Labrador Retriever — enthusiastic, loyal, and occasionally getting itself into trouble… And the puppy? It can be house trained”.
The Id needs boundaries, structure, and gentle training. Like a puppy, it can learn when it’s safe to express desire, how to coexist with others, and how to channel its energy without causing harm.
* Peter’s Super ego/ inner critical parent/ inner critic (the moralizing force- —the one that judges, scolds, or praises): “the inner monk”. Monk, a figure of contemplation, ethics, and discipline. Not harsh, shaming or punishing, but thoughtful and principled.
Copilot: “Ego — The Negotiator- The Ego is your inner adult. It tries to balance the Id’s cravings with reality. It says, ‘Okay, I hear you—but let’s find a way that works in the real world.’… The Ego judges to protect you—not punish you. Its purpose is to balance your inner desires (Id), your moral ideals (Superego), and the real world around you.
“Peter’s metaphor invites compassion toward our impulses. Instead of demonizing desire, he suggests we treat it like a loyal puppy—trainable, lovable, and worthy of care. The monk doesn’t punish the puppy; he guides it”.
Back to your words, Peter: “You’re right wisdom traditions, especially when codified, are often interpreted as saying “Do not judge.” But I think that’s a misreading. Look closer, and it’s less “Thou shalt not judge” and more ‘Judge with care.’… judge with humility and self-awareness. That lands in a similar space to what you’re pointing toward.”-
Okay, this is a relief because I cannot not judge, but I can practice judging with care, humility and self-awareness.
On a side note, I judge wisdom traditions for not being clear and straightforward. If they were clear and straightforward, they wouldn’t be so easy to misinterpret.. says I.
“Through the lens of nonduality, everything is connected. So when we judge our neighbors, we’re also judging and revealing ourselves.”- Next time I judge another person, I will think: what does my judgment reveals about me?
“P.S. I’d also argue that the moment a thought arises and gets translated into language, we’re already judging, measuring, dividing, labeling. So again, you’re right: it’s not possible not to judge. That’s why it’s so important to be conscious of what we think and say… and to keep training that puppy.”-
Thank you for the clarity= “it’s not possible not to judge”. I wonder how many people out there, reading non-duality literature, are trying very hard not to judge, then scolding themselves when they inevitably fail..?
🤍🌿 Anita
October 20, 2025 at 1:00 pm #451095Peter
ParticipantHi Anita
On a side note, I judge wisdom traditions for not being clear and straightforward. If they were clear and straightforward, they wouldn’t be so easy to misinterpret..
I don’t disagree, however the inner monk wants me to point out that one the teaching are realized they are straightforward. ‘We work for which no work is required’.
Wisdom traditions carry the challenge of using language to speak about what ultimately can’t be named. They point beyond concepts toward direct experience. That’s tricky, because the moment we use words, we enter the realm of duality, this vs. that, subject vs. object.
From childhood, we learn to use words to survive and belong, a development rooted in the lower chakras (1–3), which focus on navigating the external world (includes religious training). Language is essential, but it replaces direct experience with symbols. Over time, we forget what we once knew before words: that life is a single, continuous unfolding, not a set of opposites.
In Jungian psychology, the final stage of individuation is to come to terms with the problem of opposites, the tension of duality. Jung emphasized the heart chakra as the heart’s way of knowing doesn’t speak in definitions, but in images, stories, and felt experience. The heart holds paradox rather than resolving it allowing our judgments to loosen.
When wisdom traditions become institutions, they often forget that the path is not the destination. Hence those provocative sayings: “If you meet the Buddha on the road, kill him,” or “One must lose God to find G_d.” Such teachings are reminders that clinging to the form of wisdom can obscure its living truth.
At their best, when we hold language lightly, wisdom traditions invite us into a different way of seeing one that can’t be reduced to a formula. That’s why they often speak in metaphor, myth, and paradox: not to confuse, but to awaken us to the experience itself.
Beyond institutional constructs, these teachings don’t actually ask for belief, they invite participation. They’re not doctrines to accept, but mirrors reflecting us back into direct awareness.
For fun: find the simplicity with the Ask that we “love God completely and to love your neighbor as yourself” and merge it to Buddhist teachings. Play with the word ‘God’ as a noun, and then as a symbol/verb and notice how everything changes.
October 20, 2025 at 6:25 pm #451103anita
ParticipantDear Peter:
“However, the inner monk wants me to point out..”- “inner monk”, funny, funny Peter 🙂
“once the teaching are realized they are straightforward… direct experience… living truth… the experience itself… direct awareness… God as a.. verb”-
God as a noun- a being, a person, a deity; external, worshipped, obeyed; distant, hierarchical
God as a verb or symbol- a process, a presence, a way of being.
When “God” becomes a verb, the Ask shifts: “Love God” becomes “Love like God”, a practice.
I wonder—does your experience of love include me, Peter? Or is it more spacious, less personal?
I’m not trying to trap you in duality—I’m just curious how this living truth feels when it meets a face, a name, a smile.
How does it feel, that realized, direct, living-truth.. the experience itself? Is it a feeling of love that’s detached from people.. nothing personal..?
The experience itself, for me, feels like affection, that smile on my face and the softening of my heart when I typed out earlier “Hi non-hyena Peter 🙂”, and right above: “funny, funny Peter 🙂”. And the affection and gratitude I feel for Tee.. and my growing ability/ opening to love people.
Am I missing the point of wisdom, non-dual traditions here?
🤍🌿 Anita
October 21, 2025 at 7:35 am #451123Peter
ParticipantHi Anita
Thank you for your beautiful question and for the affection woven into it.
Yes, you are included.
When I speak of warmth and openness, it’s not a distant gaze. It’s the kind that softens when I read your words, that feels the gentle tug of affection when you share your heart. It’s spacious, but not in a way that excludes the personal. It’s spacious because it can hold the personal without clinging.
I’ve hesitated to use the word “love” because of its many layer, some tender, some tangled. But what I feel when I read your message is something like love. Not the kind that possesses or defines, but the kind that listens, smiles, and stays.
You’re not missing the point of wisdom or non-duality. When you reach out to others with compassion your living it. When the living truth meets a face, a name, a smile, words on a screen… it doesn’t dissolve them. It embraces them, gently, without grasping.
October 21, 2025 at 10:16 am #451136Peter
ParticipantThe valley spirt never dies.
Call it the mystery, the woman.The mystery, the Door of the Woman
is the root of earth and heaven.Forever this endures, forever.
and all its uses are easy – Tao Te ChingA Breath held in the Stillness
In the hush before the breath, where no wind stirs, no word is said,
the valley waits, void not empty, full of becoming.From silence, the question rises, a cry from morning earth.
No answer comes, only quiet spinning in stillness.The seeker kneels, aching for comfort, but finds only the hush.
Until the hush becomes the comfort, questions held, the ache resolves.Nothing is born here, yet all things arise.
Nothing dies here, yet all things return.Held in the stillness, the world turns without effort.
Held in the silence, the heart remembers its source.Forever this endures. Forever it flows.
And all its uses are easy.October 21, 2025 at 10:31 am #451137anita
ParticipantHi Peter:
Your message is beautiful. For me, it’s perfect: not too long/ abstract, and easy for me to understand. I want to process it in my mind and heart, to allow it to sink in:
“Thank you for your beautiful question and for the affection woven into it.”- my affection has been acknowledged and received. It feels nice.
“Yes, you are included.”- I like being included. Other people also like to be included.
“When I speak of warmth and openness… It’s spacious… because it can hold the personal without clinging… without grasping”- The term “no strings attached” come to mind, in the sense that something is being offered or done without expectations, obligations, or hidden conditions.
So, I accept your affection, Peter, whenever offered, with no expectations, clinging, or grasping.
“I’ve hesitated to use the word ‘love’ because of its many layer, some tender, some tangled. But what I feel when I read your message is something like love. Not the kind that possesses or defines, but the kind that listens, smiles, and stays.”-
This is the kind of love I want to feel and express to others: the kind that listens, smiles and stays.
In the past, I felt the kind of “love” that possesses or wants to possess, the kind that defines how the “loved one” should or shouldn’t be. It wasn’t really Love, it was Fear holding on to the idea of imagined (illusionary) safety.
As in, if only this or that person felt this way, thought that way, acted this or that way.. then I won’t be afraid anymore.
“You’re not missing the point of wisdom or non-duality. When you reach out to others with compassion you’re living it. When the living truth meets a face, a name, a smile, words on a screen.. it doesn’t dissolve them. It embraces them, gently, without grasping.”- thank you, beautifully said.
Gently embracing (Love)- not tightly grasping (Fear).
🫶🌷🌙💫🍃 Anita
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