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  • March 21, 2026 at 3:55 pm #456182
    Confused
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    The thing is, i feel relaxed? Or am i not? I dont know really, i feel hollow. The only feelings i get are some sparks here and there for the girl and sadness/ kind of panic in the thought of losing her. Yesterday i was thinking of her and i cried, felt as if she has “tear into me” 🙂

    March 21, 2026 at 3:56 pm #456183
    Confused
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    Tore*

    March 21, 2026 at 5:28 pm #456184
    anita
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    Hey 👋 Confused:

    You sure feel deeply for her even when you feel hollow.

    Don’t let the hollow-feeling fool you. There’s a lot of feelings in that hollow.. or 💧 in the 🧊, or sun 😎 in that dark.

    😎💧🧊🌙 Anita

    March 21, 2026 at 6:22 pm #456185
    Confused
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    I like your analogies, anita 🙂

    You know it’s very strange, i’ve never experienced such thing before.

    It goes like this: I feel hollow, but then i feel sparks for her, then they go away and the doubts start. Then sometimes i cry and it goes away in minutes and i feel like “why did i even cry? What was the issue?”. An hour ago i would watch a youtube video with a motorcycle on beautiful sceneries and i would fantasize about me and her doing that (it’s one of our future plans) and i felt something urgent, i think it was fear. Could it be fear of how much she means to me?

    March 21, 2026 at 7:04 pm #456186
    anita
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    Thank you. Confused. I liked my analogies myself ☺️

    You mentioned “doubts” and then “fear”. I think the two go together like 🫛s and 🥕s (it’s a saying).

    My observation, 3 months and 2 days of daily communication with you, is that you love her. That’s crystal 🔮 clear to me (another saying, just in case you’re not familiar with 🙂)

    Maybe you’re fearful because you love her so much..?

    🔮🫛🥕 Anita

    March 21, 2026 at 7:22 pm #456187
    Confused
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    This reply has been reported for inappropriate content.

    Haha i dont know this saying 🙂

    I think i do but its very weird, i can’t feel it clearly, there are fleeting moments and idk what’s “lacking”, perhaps my initial excitement? (i know this saying 🙂 )

    It might be the case because when i fantasized about this last thing, i felt like “trembling” inside.

    March 21, 2026 at 7:57 pm #456189
    anita
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    “Trembling inside”- that’s Confused in Love?

    Riding a 🛵 with her in the back?

    I am curious, you live in Greece, where does she live?

    (Remember, you don’t have to answer any of my questions, just curious)

    “Idk what’s ‘lacking’, perhaps my Initial excitement” – makes me think of person taking a drug that makes them feel WONDERFUL, so they take more, and it’s wonderful anymore. So, they take more and then get sick (well, it happened to me)

    🛵 🏍 😆 🐇 😔 Anita

    March 21, 2026 at 7:59 pm #456190
    anita
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    * and it’s NOT wonderful anymore

    March 21, 2026 at 8:08 pm #456191
    Confused
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    Would that be it? Me in love? Idk really i am so confused 🙁

    Yeah with her in the back riding into the sunset 🙂

    I live in Greece, she’s from Cyprus but currently living in Germany for studies.

    Haha yeah it was like a drug but how i came off of it was pretty abrupt. For example, RIGHT NOW (5:07) i don’t feel love or that i even want her. But an hour ago i did. How can this happen? 🙁

    March 21, 2026 at 8:19 pm #456192
    anita
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    Early, early Sun 🌄, Confused (9 hours ahead of me):

    Cyprus.. Germany 🇩🇪

    Hmm.. How 🤔 can this happen? Well, let me see.. think of emotions like wild animals, sometimes behaving, other times out of your control, W.I.L.D.

    🤔 👀🔮 Anita

    March 21, 2026 at 8:28 pm #456193
    Confused
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    Yeah i gotta go to sleep at some point 🙂

    Hmm, i’ve never had this happen to me before in my life. This is very absurd, why would they be wilding? 🙁

    March 21, 2026 at 8:36 pm #456194
    anita
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    What an original question, Confused: “Why would they be wilding”?

    Maybe the more you try to control them, the wilder they get?

    Like, the more you self-doubt them, the angrier they get?

    😠 😡 👿 … 🙂 Anita

    March 21, 2026 at 8:48 pm #456196
    Confused
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    Hahaha so u mean let them be and pay no attention to them? Rather act on logic/values ?

    March 21, 2026 at 8:48 pm #456197
    anita
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    Close to 9 pm here, I scrolled up and down, forgetting to do so on the RIGHT side of the phone 📱 screen, so accidently flagged your earlier post for inappropriate content 😔

    March 21, 2026 at 8:55 pm #456198
    anita
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    Double posting, ha- ha.

    Yes, consider a different relationship with those.. wild animals. They don’t listen to “logic/ values”- ..

    Your own “wild animals”, 😜 (that emoji just showed up as I typed)-

    Tell me about them. If you give them a voice, what do they say (or bark, or howl)?

    👿😎 Anita

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