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    Caroline
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    Anita, I understand. It’s just I am familiar with this already.

    I also understand I need to cooperate in order to get better, it’s not like I post here and someone would magically heal me. I know that.

    But I will take more time to read more about this, thank you.

    #427592
    Caroline
    Participant

    Anita, do I read correctly that you got a bit irritated with me?

    #427594
    anita
    Participant

    Dear Caroline:

    You are welcome! Yes, I was a bit irritated with you in the beginning of my reply where I typed in capital letters, for spending so little time researching these important topics, and then I switched to empathy, figuring that it was probably your heightened anxiety and exhaustion that prevented you from researching further.

    anita

    #427600
    Caroline
    Participant

    Yes it was. I was just thinking that I’ve been having this issue since last year. I talked about it, I thought I understood, I explained it to some people. I thought I was cautious and mindful when people bossed me around, or gave me advises, influenced me. This is the thing I keep thinking about almost every day since last year! And now it turns out nothing has improved because I just agreed to go to a place that does not interest me. And it was supposed to be dreamy vacation, once in a few years! The one I was waiting for.

    I felt really hopeless. And still do.

    I will take some time to answer and read your other post in my other thread, Anita.

    #427603
    anita
    Participant

    Dear Caroline:

    You can tell your girlfriend that you changed your mind regarding the place to visit, unless maybe tickets were already purchased (?). Do take your time replying in your other thread and please try to calm down and remain calm, best you can.

    anita

    #427653
    Caroline
    Participant

    Anita,

    We already bought the tickets.

     

    #427663
    anita
    Participant

    Dear Caroline: Since the tickets is part of the topic of your relationship, I’ll reply on your other thread.

    anita

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