I met a friend in my Company. His name is Nishant. we became very good freinds, in over 6 months.The friendship started in Feb and ended in August.

Earlier i used to go hiking with him, then we started to have lunch together, then we started hanging out together and the hiking continued. He became a very good friend of mine. He had a very different mindset though. He did not bother what others think of themselves, he was of the attitude of what he thinks is right for himself and his opinion of others. He used to tell me that if a person does not behaves according to his thinking then he would stop talking to them. Because he cant stay with them any longer.

I did notice him doing this with some of his company friends. Little did i know that it would happen to me some day. I became very close to him. I felt that he started to like me but i was not sure. Also i started to like him since July even i was not sure whether it was liking or not. I did not have any intentions but it happened eventually since we started to spend so much time together.

We planned a hiking trip in which his friend, Akshay, Akshay’s girlfriend  and both of us. But due to some circumstances my sister had to come to visit me, so i asked her to come along on the hike. He persuaded me to not bring her but i couldnt do anything and i cannot put my family below anything. He got upset as to why i was bringing her. And then all 5 of us went hiking. He did not talk to me properly entire time.  Then after some days i managed to make him normal.

Then one day i left my friend alone for lunch as she came late and i already finished my lunch.I couldn’t wait as i cannot spent more than 1 hr on lunch and she came after 1 hr. Also she was okay with having lunch alone.  Also she eats very slowly so i was not able to wait for her. He was there he saw me leaving her alone so he said to me that it was wrong of me leaving her alone. I explained to him the situation but he was adamant that i was wrong and i shouldn’t have done that.

Second instance was there were 4 people having lunch together his friend, my friend, nishant and i. We finished our lunch and went for a walk and my friend wanted to have a personal talk with me. So i asked both of them that i will join them after a while. When the conversation was over my friend left and i went and joined both of them. Later on he scolds me and said that i was behaving like a child and i was stupid and that, such behavior of not being in the group is not good. The conversations could have happened afterwards and we would have walked together. I fought with him saying that if he doesn’t know the context he cannot say that. And its up to me whom to talk to and when.

After that he did not talk to me and then after a week i asked him to come and meet me, when i went to meet him. He said that he stops hanging out with people who behave like this. The same thing happened with me. His words broke me. And its been 2 months since we have talked. I sometimes cry as to why he did this. I have become emotionally weak after him doing this to me. I dont know where i went wrong or is this reason even viable to break such a good friendship i had with him. I miss him a lot. I feel that was it so easy for him to break the friendship. I am having difficulty in moving on. i remember everything and the memories come flashing everytime. How to forget him. I just wanna know why he did this to me.

Was i wrong, Can these reasons be the reasons for ending the friendship. Please help me. I dont want to think anymore i am overthinking and  doubting myself. Please be honest !!