Hi Jennifer,

I think you can go to the police station and file a “no contact order” where he is not allowed anywhere near you, your house, your family, or to call or contact you in any way. If he does break this order, he goes to jail.

Hi Jennifer,

Change all your passwords on everything if you haven’t done it already. Get a security professional to go around your house and give you suggestions. (Lights that turn on when he steps on the driveway/grass, etc.)

Other suggestions some of which I’ve done: Get an intimidating looking dog, let the neighbors know, tell them to be as nosey as can be and come over when they see him, have a pair of dirty size 13 men’s work boots on your porch, borrow a friend’s beat up truck with deer hunting decals on it while your car is safely ensconced in a garage, the classic take different routes to work, stay at a friend/relatives house, get a roommate, let mention online that your new roommate is an NRA nut, take Krav Maga classes, eventually move again and get a different job in the dead of night.

One day I promise you, he will give up and move onto his next victim.

Been There! (I even got engaged and he thought I was making my fiancé up. It ended when I actually got married.)

Good Luck!

Inky

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