Home→Forums→Tough Times→Bad parents
- This topic has 104 replies, 2 voices, and was last updated 6 months, 1 week ago by
anita.
-
AuthorPosts
-
January 18, 2023 at 6:06 am #414044
MinaParticipantNobody on my side. I feel helpless scared and hopeless. I feel there is no point but because I’m kept alive I am wondering why so I came here for solution.
January 18, 2023 at 6:08 am #414045
AnonymousGuestDear Mina:
You asked: “Can i refer to you as Anita?”- absolutely.
anita
January 18, 2023 at 6:13 am #414046
AnonymousGuestDear Mina:
I am on your side. In regard to a solution: is there any way for you to live elsewhere, not with your mother, not with your parents.. but somewhere else?
anita
January 18, 2023 at 6:14 am #414047
MinaParticipantYes my mom has controlled me since childhood. I didn’t even know what I should see in the person whom I’m getting married to. I didn’t even ask him his salary and the day after we were married he asked for money. On the marriage day he saw a guest and said that girl looks younger than you.
January 18, 2023 at 6:21 am #414048
MinaParticipantThanks.
No Anita. I tried once when I was working and that’s when I saw some drug addicts and got scared and came back home. My parents mock me till date.
January 18, 2023 at 6:24 am #414049
MinaParticipantMy mom suggested I should get married again. I think that isn’t a good idea.
January 18, 2023 at 6:25 am #414050
MinaParticipantMy parents have taken away my finances.
January 18, 2023 at 6:26 am #414051
MinaParticipantMy father gave everything to my mother.
January 18, 2023 at 6:33 am #414053
AnonymousGuestDear Mina:
You are welcome. I am sorry for your wedding experience. It is very sad that your mother had you married to a man you did not agree to marry, a man you didn’t even know.
“My mom suggested I should get married again. I think that isn’t a good idea“- I agree. I think that it is a bad idea for you to take any suggestion that your mother makes. It’s a bad idea to take suggestions made by a person who mocks you and says you are stupid, etc.
Do you have any siblings, brothers or sisters… maybe aunt or some family relative that can protect you from your mother (and father), who can give you a place to stay for a while, a safe place away from your mother?
anita
January 18, 2023 at 6:45 am #414067
MinaParticipantI have a brother. But he has his own life.
Also when I was in rehabilitation the in charge there told me where ever u go u have to listen to somebody so I decided I will stay with my parents but they say no to everything I want to do starting from my clothes food hobby job.and topping that medicines.
January 18, 2023 at 6:52 am #414069
AnonymousGuestDear Mina:
I want to get to know you better, therefore I ask: what is your medical/ psychiatric diagnoses, when were these diagnoses made and what is the prognosis (doctors’ view of your future mental/ physical health)?
Also, you wrote earlier that your parents bribed your doctors.. what do you mean by it?
anita
January 18, 2023 at 7:14 am #414070
MinaParticipantDoctor says schizophrenia another one said depression. They are recommended by my mother relative.
January 18, 2023 at 7:15 am #414071
MinaParticipantFor 3 years when I did nothing I had no episode
January 18, 2023 at 7:15 am #414072
MinaParticipantMy mother enjoys calling me mad.
January 18, 2023 at 7:21 am #414073
MinaParticipantShe asks the doctor how to keep me occupied she does everything correctly so no doubt on her. Her step brother was in rehab. Her sister doctor.
-
AuthorPosts
Though I run this site, it is not mine. It's ours. It's not about me. It's about us. Your stories and your wisdom are just as meaningful as mine.