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  • in reply to: Flow of Rise and Fall #452656
    Thomas168
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    Anita said, “The clinging itself is a source of suffering..?”

    Life happens and all things will change over time.
    When the first thing to change happens and we feel injured, that is life or the first arrow.
    When we hold onto the feelings and thoughts about the injury then that is like a second arrow.
    The second arrow is more suffering. Not all of the suffering.
    So, trying not to cling to something. Do we just say it and it happens?
    Do we will it and it happens?
    To me, if it does happen then it has come about thru practice and effort.
    Although final release comes from letting go.
    I wish you a good nights rest.
    When you figure out how to let something go after 4 years then please let me know.
    I have held onto something for the past 45 years that I have tried to free myself from.
    Thanks in advance.

    in reply to: Yes, but versus don’t know .. mind #452655
    Thomas168
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    Hello Alessa,

    It isn’t that there is nothing new in James posts or threads. After all, it is what it is. But, I feel his words lacks the feel of the real truth. Yes, he thinks I judge and criticize and compare. I do. I think everyone does to some degree. But, I am also on a spiritual journey of my own. I have met real teachers who present the most profound insights and teachings that it has to come from an inner source. James believes that no one can help me. Well if that is true then please let it be the last message he sends me. His rhetoric, although there isn’t anything that is not true, doesn’t seem to come from a completed realized truth. I don’t know. Maybe he is the next prophet but not for me. I get the terrible feelings that he has experienced something but has not completed enough training to be preaching. Yeah, that is my prejudice.

    Someone said to me that I needed to control my physical desires and my emotional feelings and my thoughts as a prelude to becoming enlightened. I could only respond by saying that enlightenment is not for me if those are the requirements. Cause I have no physical control. When I am hungry, I eat. When I am tired, I sleep. Cause I have no control over my emotions. When I see my wife, I feel love there and a sense of peace. When I see someone getting hurt, my empathy or compassion comes out. My thoughts runs rampart and I have no way to control its intentions. So, yeah, there is no “one” who can help me.

    I don’t preach. I am not like James. I have no wise words to pass on. Only what I have seen and think to be true. If that has ruffled a few feathers then I apologize for being the wind in the sandstorm. Sorry for all the misery I have caused.

    in reply to: Yes, but versus don’t know .. mind #452646
    Thomas168
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    Anita,

    I am sorry for your current condition of depression. Is there anything that you need? I am not fighting with James. But, I have aversions to people who profess wisdom like the way he does. Nothing he says isn’t true but it also isn’t something I have already seen before. To me there doesn’t seem to have any underlying truth coming from James. So, I push and pull. I put up a mirror to what he does. He tells me that I lie to myself or believe in lies. So, I said the same thing back to him to see his response. He goes back to his high and mighty position and keeps preaching. I do not want to continue. So,I will open my mind to learn. But, he hasn’t brought anything I haven’t encountered before. Hands in the air. I surrender. Hope that relieves any tension you have.

    Thomas

    in reply to: Yes, but versus don’t know .. mind #452637
    Thomas168
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    Yes, but mind. Knows all the answers. So when listens to another, it goes yes, but.
    It needs to interrupt and bring its truth to the table.
    The don’t know mind listens and goes I did not know and learns.
    It listens and learns because it is open.

    When I hear you, I go yes, but.
    Sorry, that is my fault.
    Then I listen and I learn
    My heart is open.
    I can learn from any source.

    in reply to: Yes, but versus don’t know .. mind #452635
    Thomas168
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    Rest assured that there is no greater suffering than lying or exaggerating your understanding.

    in reply to: Yes, but versus don’t know .. mind #452628
    Thomas168
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    So, I never claim to be awakened. I don’t preach. I don’t tell people “Enlightenment is simply being where You already are.” While “recognition of our True nature is stillness itself.” may be true, it still misses the mark.

    Seekers come in all different flavors. Some are confused. And some are drowning in lost conceptual ideas about how they think it all works. Some might think it is some kind of competition, but there is only one metric – are you awakened or not. Can you see emptiness in all appearances in this moment, always. Rest assured that there is no greater suffering than lying or exaggerating your understanding.

    in reply to: Yes, but versus don’t know .. mind #452626
    Thomas168
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    There is no enlightenment, only enlightened actions.
    Mine will be to refrain from commenting where it is not needed.
    Emptiness and stillness of mind.
    Maybe one day I will see that?

    in reply to: Yes, but versus don’t know .. mind #452624
    Thomas168
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    James said, “Any knowledge and experience arises and falls within?”

    Within what? What are you trying to say? Or are you just trying to sound mystical?
    Seriously, I am trying to take your advice and forget you and what you do.
    Please if you have nothing to say that makes sense then please refrain from commenting.

    James said, “You are none and untouched.”

    You are something and I think a bit touched. But that is only my opinion.

    James said, “Peace”

    Yes, that is what I wish for. Peace.
    For that, I will stay out of your threads.

    in reply to: Real Spirituality #452602
    Thomas168
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    “Dear Thomas,
    As i told forget about me and what i do.
    Evaluate your life that are you happy or not.
    There is path showing you, if you like walk or just talk.
    Peace.”

    Yes, I will do as you say. Take your advice.
    I will forget about you and what you do.

    in reply to: Real Spirituality #452583
    Thomas168
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    Dear Anita,

    Taking sides? You should alway do what you feel is right for you.
    I should never tell anyone what they should or should not be doing.
    Only point out alternatives. Aggression? Hmm, guess it came across all wrong.
    Maybe I should spend more time just sitting?
    Oh, going with the flow is always beneath your feet because there is only now.
    If you want to reach the source of the flow then it starts here, now.
    Doesn’t help when one is just given answers??
    The journey is just as important.

    in reply to: Real Spirituality #452563
    Thomas168
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    Peter,

    Thank you for your insights. I am glad that you do not see these posts as adversarial.
    With Anita, I do not know her practice nor her level of understanding.
    But, I do know she is one of the most compassionate person I have ever come across.
    She is willing to learn. And can move forward from where she stands.

    in reply to: Real Spirituality #452562
    Thomas168
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    James said, “Love is not being alone or isolated.
    İt is sharing, caring and compassion.

    Why does all teachers, Sufi’s and prophets dedicated them life to share these with humanity?

    Because, when body and mind are surrendered or returned to factory settings or so called self returned to source, this is what body and mind’s condition. Love, sharing and caring, and telling to Truth is inevitable.

    I am here not to pat people, I am here to help, care and specially warn.”

    And I have asked you to share your wisdom and compassion with those who come here for their suffering.
    I don’t know. Have you done anything else than start your own topics and replied to them.
    Have you posted help and advice on another’s thread for hope?
    Have you lent that compassionate ear to learn of other’s pain and suffering?
    Sorry, this is not an accusation. Only questions.

    in reply to: Real Spirituality #452551
    Thomas168
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    Dear James,

    One can only change oneself and in doing so, will change the world.

    Who brings the consequences for another’s deeds?
    The self? Society? Or the government? Or do you believe that Karma is an agency for justice?

    in reply to: Real Spirituality #452548
    Thomas168
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    Dear James,

    All I ask is to look into the mirror (metaphorically speaking) and say those same things. Cause I can see how you hold tight to those beliefs of yours. Not asking you to stop believing. Just to take a second look.

    in reply to: what business can make a lot of money? #452538
    Thomas168
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    There is a story of a woman who moved to Hong Kong. She spoke Mandarin while everyone around her spoke Cantonese. With little money and little skills, she started with what she thought could be a business to keep her surviving. She made dumplings. At first she did make many sales and even had to throw away the dumplings cause they spoiled waiting for customers. Thru perseverance, trial and error, she finally started selling dumplings. Ended up making millions. Of course not everyone will make it. Any business is a risk. Are you smart enough? Are you hardworking enough? Do you know how to market and sell? What will you market? Services or items? No one can just give you an idea that will become a profitable business. I am sure there will be those to suggest something. Good luck. Wish you the best.

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