Dear Amy,

I can simply say one thing, all those things you listed down- imagine dealing with all those negatives for the rest of your life? you indirectly pushing him to settle down and providing deadlines is not going to change the man. If he really values you he doesn’t need to REMEMBER a deadline to give an answer. we would KNOW the answer. if he has doubts that he has to think so much, clearly he doesn’t deserve you.

Learn to value and appreciate yourself first. then you will realize that you have absolutely no reason to tolerate anyone who treats you this way. It’s going to be hard to let go, but trust me once you do you will achieve an amazing level of freedom and happiness in your life giving room to someone who actually cares about you.

whenever he comes to you and apologizes or keeps calling and IF YOU KNOW is melts you and affects you, block him. just stay away. stay away from anything that would make you feel vulnerable. and then push yourself to come out of this.

All the best. Hope you make the right choice and wish you a lifetime of happiness.

-Luff