You Don’t Need Other People to Validate Your Feelings
âWhen you give another person the power to define you, then you also give them the power to control you.â ~Leslie Vernick
Itâs coming up on the anniversary of when I left a relationship that was both my unhealthiest and my greatest catalyst for growth.
While Iâm able to see that he was a spiritual assignment I needed in order to evolve, I canât help but feel resentful. But what surprises me isnât my anger at him; itâs my anger at myself. Let me explain.
Disastrous relationships are nothing new for me. My past is riddled with complicated, codependent, and …