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Posts by Kate Britt

Kate is a retired teacher, editor, and technical writer living in Vancouver, BC, Canada. She blogs sporadically at http://ponderthepreposterous.wordpress.com/.

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Forming A Healthy Habit Starts from Within

“The outer conditions of a personā€™s life will always be found to reflect their inner beliefs.” ~James Allen

I recently participated in a 21-day online fitness support group. I needed some external motivation to help re-establish a daily habit of fitness activity. My lazy butt was so reluctant to start this! Nevertheless, by the last day of the challenge, I was enthusiastically back into the habit.

We all know it takes three weeks of daily repetition to form a habit, so my success may not surprise you. What surprised me was why I ultimately met my goal.

It turned out

How to Stop Being a Neat Freak & Stressing About Keeping Things Tidy

“Life’s challenges are not supposed to paralyze you; they’re supposed to help you discover who you are.” ~ Bernice Johnson Reagon

Have you ever hung up a towel and not straightened it or folded it or arranged it in some way as you did so? Have you ever just casually tossed a towel over the towel rail?

I did that last weekend and it was a big event. I had to laugh at myself for having this obsessive quirk, but doing that was almost impossible. I was in a hurry putting away the laundry, and there were those two clean …

Listen to the Moment: Knowing What to Do Now

“If we are not fully ourselves, truly in the present moment, we miss everything.”Ā  ~Thich Nhat Hanh

Today, out of the blue, I got two connection-request messages on LinkedIn from two childrenā€™s authors. I donā€™t know either one, personally. Iā€™m not involved with childrenā€™s literature. Why was I receiving these requests? I could have thought, ā€œThatā€™s strangeā€ and just let it go. Instead, I explored how this unusual coincidence might relate to what was going on in my life at that moment.

For a few days, Iā€™ve been having the urge to write something new and have done nothing about. …

Beat Procrastination: How to Want to Tackle Your To-Do List

“Until you value yourself, you won’t value your time. Until you value your time, you won’t do anything with it.” ~ M. Scott Peck

Ten years ago, I stopped procrastinating. Lots of procrastination, then zeroā€”overnight. Cold turkey worked for me. Now I hardly ever procrastinate.

Why the sudden change? How did I do it?

Lists and Procrastination

Like many people, I make lists, including to-do lists, reminders, shopping lists, wish lists, and my what-to-do-when-bored list. I completely rely on my lists to keep my life moving along.

My Dad purposefully decided not to make lists. He believed he could maintain …

How to Change Your Mind and Your Life by Using Affirmations

ā€œAll that we are is the result of what we have thought. The mind is everything. What we think we become.ā€ ~Buddha

I used to teach Adult Upgrading. My students were people who had never completed grade school and/or high school. For a variety of reasons, they were now ready to try it again.

New students would say, ā€œI wasnā€™t ever any good at school.ā€ ā€œI canā€™t do math.ā€ ā€œI hate fractions.ā€

Itā€™s my belief that our self-talk is programming ourselves for our statements to be true.

Those students thought theyā€™d been stating the facts, not revealing programmed beliefs.…

Controlling Your Inner Control Freak: The Art of Inefficiency

ā€œBeing right is highly overrated. Even a stopped clock is right twice a day.ā€ ~Unknown

Iā€™ve always been a control freak. But I’ve learned to control it!

I was born with the ability to quickly envision the most efficient way through a task, activity, project, problem, puzzle, or challenge. This has made me useful to many people, especially in my workplaces.

But it can make people crazy, too. Especially when Iā€™ve expected others to buy into the approach I knew would work best, fastest, most efficiently.

My partner sometimes reminds me, “It doesn’t always have to be about being efficient!”…