Hey 👋 “Have No Clue” Confused:

I just sent you a perfect reply, so I thought and it didn’t get recorded. I’ll try to rewrite it:

Yes, the effects of childhood trauma, i.e., Complex Trauma (such as yours, mine, and millions of people all over the world) appear in childhood- so, yes, way before Nov of last year.

Your therapist used the words ” middle grounds” ✔️ which is, seems to me, the same as the “middle way”- the place in- between extremes.

I 😊ed as I read your ha-ha joke.

It crossed my mind as I read the rest of your 2 posts, that part of you (whom your therapist referred to as the “judge”, and whom I and Copilot referred to as your “protector”) is giving you such a difficult time 😔

It’s like it figures that if you ABANDON your feelings for her, it won’t hurt you when (if) she ABANDONS you.

It’s that, and the unrealistic expectation of a never- ending emotional high, which reminds me of how the fairytales I grew up with ended:

“And they lived happily ever after”.

Do you believe in fairytales, Confused?

✨️🌙✨️ Anita