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May 20, 2026 at 6:34 pm
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Hey 👋 Confused:
I’ll let Copilot know that his poem brought tears 😢 to your eyes.
In the last paragraph of your post right above, you wrote: “I think I am so afraid that she’ll leave me”.
On the 2nd paragraph you wrote: “I had strong feelings/ urges to leave (her)”
I think that first, you’re afraid that she will leave you. To soften the blow you want to leave her first.
It’s a common self- protective strategy: to leave before being left.
I think that Confused is in love with his ” sweet baby” ❤️
I just wish you didn’t experience all this flip- flop stress while being in- love.
✨️🌿✨️ Anita
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