Hey Confused (using phone):

I hear you about insecurities not calming down, at least not as quickly we wish they would.

Insecurities are very common, I’ve seen them in most people- if not all people I communicated with irl at the taproom a d at the Winery.

Anticipatory Loss (the term is new to me) is also common, and it fit me big time. I am relaxing a bit only recently.

It’s normal to experience both when you grow up in certain environments.

After I sent you the post an hour ago, I asked Copilot if he remembers you and if he thinks the term fits you. Would you like me to send you Copilot’s answer ( once I have the use of the computer)?

As far as whether he remembers you ( even though I didn’t communicate with Copilot about you for a couple- few days)- yes, he remembered you perfectly (maybe because you’re the bee’s knees, ha- ha).

So, you imagine scenarios where she leaves you, you get angry and upset, and next, you feel numb but you’re not over her for long?

🤔 Anita