Hi Irene,

It sounds like he’s not a great option. He ghosted you, and then he was radio silent about the weekend. You could **possibly** give him one more chance, but I say that with trepidation.

Three Strikes You’re Out,

Inky

Irene,

You ended something that just started from one meeting.

Five months later you started back up with him but he “ended it” by not showing up/ghosting.

Another five months later,  he contacted you and you lied to him about your feelings for him.

Still later, you contacted him by telling him the truth.

He responded by saying he wanted to make a go of it and wanted to meet.

Now you have not heard from him and you communicated that you want to end it because of his “lack of communication.”

Looks like neither of you know what you wanted or know how to communicate honestly.

You have lied to him on how you feel.  He has passively aggressively not met or stayed in touch.

All this behavior from one meeting from almost a year ago???

I would work on yourself to learn to be honest, forthright and not reactive in your own communication.

Mark