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    Inky
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    Hi m,

    After eight years together, of course you miss him.

    And after eight years together, I’m not surprised it ended (if temporarily).

    Sure, you can get back together again. But for that both of you need clarity. Clarity begins with distance. Tell him you won’t be chatting, texting, calling or seeing him this year. Then next year reconnect, and perhaps tentatively begin to start over. After being apart for so long you will have a lot to talk about. And hopefully both of you will be refreshed and renewed.

    Good Luck,

    Inky

    #191853
    Anonymous
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    Dear m:

    You wrote: “I guess I just want to talk things through and find out what and why went wrong.

    I guess I secretly want another chance”

    I think it is a good idea: to “find out what and why went wrong”, and then, based on new information, and on further discussion about how to function effectively in the future, as a couple, decide if it is a good idea to get back together.

    anita

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