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  • June 5, 2019 at 8:10 pm #297583
    Newlifestartsnow
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    I am a girl in my 20’s, never been with a girl, but i am curious!!!, I really like this girl i work with and i know she is bisexual.

    she currently likes a guy, and for some reason i am so bummed out because i thought we had this connection.

    it seems like everytime i like someone, that someone already is taken or is crushing on someone else!

    i really would like to get to know her in that way, but i can never express this because although she is not my manager at work, she is still one step above me and technically in charge of me (although that has never stopped people from dating)

    i feel so sad! i really like her, i though she sorta liked me too, and then i find out she likes this guy ugghhhhhh why does this always happen!!! i just want my happily ever after for once lol

     

    June 6, 2019 at 7:55 am #297667
    Anonymous
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    Dear Newlifestartsnow:

    Welcome back. It is a bad idea for you to pursue this woman at work because it is likely to hurt your position at work, to hurt the atmosphere for you at work. Plus she expressed a romantic/ physical interest in another person.

    You are about 28 now, still in premed school?

    March 2017 you wrote: “the feeling that you are not good enough for someone, that you are not worth the fight… one ex boyfriend left me with this feeling. So when this guy ended things (Hollywood date) I felt the same all over again. I felt like I wasn’t good enough for him, like I was not worth it.. I’m just scared”-

    – how are you doing with these feelings that you expressed more than two years ago?

    anita

    June 6, 2019 at 11:26 am #297705
    Inky
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    Hi Newlifestartsnow,

    I agree that it’s a poor idea to mix romance and work.

    If you just want that bisexual experience, there are dating sites that can help satisfy your curiosity.

    I would be super proactive. Go on 100 dates (there is a book/movie about someone who did just that). Based purely on statistics, you will invariably find someone who’s as crazy about you as you are about them. And if you’re not? Well, you will have such a full calendar that it won’t be a big deal. In the end it’s just a luck/numbers game.

    Best,

    Inky

    June 7, 2019 at 10:08 pm #297927
    Newlifestartsnow
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    ok so today!!!!

    We were at work in front of others and she kissed my head 3 times!!!!

    what does that mean????? does it mean she likes me or what?

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