Dear Sarasa,

good to read from you again! I am sorry things turned out like this, but at least now you know what the deal is, and can start moving on…

I always land up trusting the wrong guy. 

If you’ve already noticed this pattern before, perhaps it’s worth exploring it a little more. Have you experienced betrayal or disappointment before, in your relationship with men? Or even earlier, in your family of origin?

I tried downloading networking apps and finding new people to talk to virtually. It’s hard for me just to be friends with them too. I find it hard to trust them.

Yes, meeting people virtually can be a challenge because they may be pretending to be someone they’re not. How about meeting guys in person? I know it’s more difficult now, during covid, but once the restrictions lessen, do you think you would get the chance to meet people face to face, or it’s a challenge for you?