What does that mean when a guy said he wanna take things slow

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September 30, 2018 at 8:27 am #228213

Michelle
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I don’t think it’s a “push off” but it does give me red flags. It feels like a game. If there is something you should know about, information that would aid in you making smart decisions for yourself (such as continuing the relationship or not), and he is holding back on it, that shows poor character in my opinion.

I feel like he’s setting things up to eventually say “I told you so”.

September 30, 2018 at 8:45 am #228223

Inky
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Hi leelee,

The next time he texts something like that say, “You’re making me nervous here LOL”

I wouldn’t read too much into it. He (like you) is still very young, and he’s not going to be perfect.

Treat dating him as a casual thing.

Best,

Inky

September 30, 2018 at 11:34 am #228265

leelee
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Guess it’s another word that he is not looking something serious?

September 30, 2018 at 12:01 pm #228279

BeNice
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Since u met on dating app he’s still searching for someone that he just wanted to hang out with or go around dating, like not getting into serious relationship yet. Dont expect anything from him

September 30, 2018 at 1:04 pm #228295

Anonymous
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Dear leelee:

He texted you: “And sorry but I want us to take time, you need to know what you are getting into“. After you asked him what are you getting into, he answered: “exactly you need to discover”.

Well, if he is sincere, he wants you to discover what it is that you are getting into, so discover by asking him again, in person, what he meant when he said what he said (the italicized). Certainly he meant something, so he better tell you what that something is. It is not fair to put it out there and then refuse to elaborate.

If he avoids the question, if he remains vague, then he is indeed playing a game. I hope not. You will find out soon enough. This will be easy to figure and you are welcome to post again with what happens next and what he says.

anita
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