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  • May 6, 2018 at 4:38 am #205773
    Anonymous
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    Dear Grace:

    Are you confused about what he meant by throwing the rose to you? If so, why not ask him (after he wakes up).

    In the past you had long conversations with him, as long as six hours, you shares. Having a much shorter conversation, honest, direct, simple will give you the information you need at this point.

    anita

    May 6, 2018 at 7:19 am #205783
    Grace
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    -Anita

    Wow, I think you’re right, I am confused about what the Rose meant, I haven’t talked to him for months, but I’ve seen him around school. It’s kind of awkward, but I get through it. I mean he replied and it was a nice conversation. But like should I just get on with my life, I feel like everytime I like him, it’s for no reason. But I really just liked our friendship. I just feel like I can’t be friends with him because everytime I reconnect, I start to fall into a huge crush.

     

    May 6, 2018 at 7:46 am #205789
    Anonymous
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    Dear Grace:

    If having a “huge crush” separates you from sensibility, from being able to learn who he is/ what motivates him and makes you unable to choose your behavior thoughtfully, then better have no contact with him.

    anita

    May 6, 2018 at 12:15 pm #205819
    Inky
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    Hi Grace,

    It reads to me like this boy will always be slightly behind you. Not enough to be a deal breaker, but enough to be annoying.

    The rose was a gesture that he misses you and is thinking about you. You don’t have to DO anything, just accept the gift.

    Best,

    Inky

    May 6, 2018 at 2:00 pm #205851
    Grace
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    Thank you inky

    I agree it’s just hard to let go of a first major crush..

    sometimes I wish it worked out for the better, but that’s life.

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