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  • January 17, 2019 at 6:30 pm #275269
    Mark
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    Maria,

    Wow, I can understand you are feeling alone.  You almost lost your friend which highlights that possibility.  I imagine that is very stressful with you checking her all the time.  Do you live with her?  That would be hard.  Good that you have a therapist to help with you on that and life in general.

    You mentioned some good stuff.  What are those things?  Do you keep a gratitude journal?  That is always a good method to help shift things.

    Mark

     

    January 18, 2019 at 9:56 am #275385
    Anonymous
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    Dear Maria:

    Welcome back!

    “I don’t want to be reasoned with, I just want to cry and be held and be told that someone loves me”- I can see,  in my mind’s eye, the fierce 20 year old very young woman Maria, a “single soldier in this stupid battle”, collapsing into someone’s arms, crying like a baby, releasing all that military like posturing, allowing yourself to be that hurt child that you are inside.

    And I still imagine, in this vision, the person holding you, holding you tight and tighter, but gently, so it doesn’t hurt, and rocking you just a bit, telling you she hears you, she hears your cries and she is here for you, to care for you, to  hold you, to protect you.

    anita

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