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  • October 16, 2014 at 3:58 am #66335
    Inky
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    There’s a time honored tradition of getting several roommates and living in an apartment together. Also, can you run your own side business? Like landscaping (as just one of many examples), and see how that goes?

    The world has changed in the past few decades. The good news is you’re a guy and don’t have this biological time pressure that girls have to start a family. Also, houses are overrated.

    And I notice that you won’t really be fully respected as an adult until you hit 40. LOL. Before then you will be a “kid”.

    Study and practice meditation to let your anger go. Or, fully embrace it and have a private tantrum where you yell, scream, hit things.

    October 16, 2014 at 6:22 am #66336
    turquoise115
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    Change means taking risks. You are trapped because you fear what might happen if you change what is actually comfortable. You are angry because you know you are better. Accept the hard path and make it happen, that’s what men do.

    October 16, 2014 at 9:40 am #66348
    Trevor
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    I tried moving out living on campus at a college with 2 roommates and I have severe anxiety when I do not have some personal space… I thought that I would get over it but the two years I was there I didn’t seem to feel any more comfortable. My work and quality of life suffered dramatically.

    I don’t think it’s as much “moving out,” but having personal space, independence, freedom, and respect as a hard working valued individual. That is self-actualization, no?

    • This reply was modified 10 years, 7 months ago by Trevor.
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