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  • December 11, 2015 at 4:20 am #89445
    Inky
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    Hi Annie,

    OK, this is just a quick response, I might come back to it…

    The Roommate made things Awkward. Now he feels uncomfortable.

    My remedy: Let it be Awkward. Let the Awkward Stand.

    He tried to pull rank on you, putting your BF in a very uncomfortable situation. He was making it Me and the Other Girl and the Boy Friend vs. The Girl Friend.

    You didn’t play the game and wisely avoided him.

    If you don’t want to deal with the Awkward either, have your BF always come to your apartment or move in together. Then the Room mate (and not the Other Girl) can visit YOU!

    Best,

    Inky

    • This reply was modified 9 years, 4 months ago by Inky.
    December 13, 2015 at 4:09 am #89578
    Annie
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    Hi Inky,

    Thanks for responding. I am okay with leaving things as awkward. I’d rather not deal with it since I have nothing to do with him. I realized he didn’t play any role in my life. I think you are right about pulling rank. It may also have been a trick to drive us apart so that their relaitonship could go back to the way it was (where they shared all the details of their lives) or that they wouldn’t have roommate problems later on. Yeah, that sounds great. I still go to my boyfriend’s apartment, but completely avoid this person.

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