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  • August 8, 2015 at 6:09 am #81442
    Inky
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    Hi Annie,

    I would Drop the Rope. You’ve done it with not contacting him. But when you see him at work, this is how you Drop the Rope: When he says “Hi”, you say “Hi”. You don’t say “Hi” first. Let him take the lead, like in a dance. He doesn’t exist unless and until he talks to YOU! Then, FOLLOW his lead.

    At the same time, imagine that you are a Princess. A rare jewel. A five-star card. It’s as if he tried to throw junk away from his attic but Surprise! It’s worth a million dollars! Reframe The Story to be he didn’t know who you were, and he now has to live with that regret.

    Be polite when you see him. But remember, you are an elegant lady with escorts, balls to attend, and a kingdom to run.

    Good Luck!

    Inky

    August 8, 2015 at 11:41 am #81454
    andrea
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    Wow inky….loved the way to wrote!

    August 8, 2015 at 11:53 am #81455
    Inky
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    Thanks! 🙂

    August 8, 2015 at 1:08 pm #81462
    Annie
    Participant

    Thank you Inky, I will try to remember that. I think you are right that I will stay away from him. I don’t know if I can even be there in that room with him. Do you mind responding to my new question? It would mean a lot to me, thank you.

    August 8, 2015 at 9:37 pm #81475
    debby
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      Hi

      I have a problem of letting go of my boyfriend,I’m 17 years old and we’ve been together for 2 years now.I love him so much and we’ve been through a lot together but he’s hurt me so much and I dont wanna continue being hurt like that
      I dont know what to do

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