Hello there! Judging by the fact that your boyfriend may still have lingering feelings for the woman, you should let go and find someone else that will be there for you through thick and thin. The relationship would deteriorate if you DID stay together I know what it’s like to want to be with someone who you think will exceed all of your expectations and endless needs even though they’re just not the person for you. While I’ve never been in a relationship, I have wanted to be with this person who doesn’t even know me because we’ve never met. Basically, he’s a singer. At times, I tried to let go of them to move on and I’m frankly doing a good job. I haven’t talked about him, and I haven’t been on his Twitter account. Aside from that, I know I need to let go to experience something better. The same could be said for you. I hope this helps. Live, laugh, love.

Oh, dear…
I’ve been in his place. It was terrible because I knew I didn’t love him anymore and no matter what I did, how much I tried, I couldn’t force love, couldn’t make this relationship right. We had a (somewhat) messy breakup. And I regret that I wasted his time, I regret that some of his first experiences were with someone not in love with him.
Anyways if this is the case with your boyfriend, it pains me to say this but I don’t think you can work it out. It’s not your fault. It’s not his. It will hurt to part ways… but well, we all face pain and frustration. I’ve had my share for the first time, and I’m angry at myself, and I’m angry at life, but I know the healthiest thing to do is accept this defeat and move on.
You deserve a partner on the same page as you. You can be happy while single, ove you’re over the pain. And one day someone else will appear and you’ll love again, and you won’t regret this decision.
It’s hard when love goes wrong. My heart goes out to you.