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  • February 21, 2019 at 1:33 am #281125
    sparkle00
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    My partner has decided to end our relationship. I could not get a handle on worrying that someone else would catch his eye and I would lose him. Over the last few weeks we have been arguing about this. I feel my life and everything I loved is over.

    February 21, 2019 at 2:05 am #281129
    sparkle00
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    So prior to this I’ve been trying to work on myself and not be triggered by certain things. L but this afternoon it became unbearable.  My partner was cooking outside and a woman was playing tennis. He laughed at something she said and this stirred her curiosity. I could see him from the bedroom window. Maybe he wanted her to noticed him. She is completely opposite to me young fit attractive and tall plus loud. Actually she’s there most week days and he notices. I am short, chubby , old and quiet. Anyway it started a arguement and the end of us.

    February 22, 2019 at 9:11 pm #281463
    Hey Its Jess
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    Dear sparkle

    Do you want to reconcile?

    February 23, 2019 at 8:01 am #281475
    Inky
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    Hi sparkle00,

    If he gets into a relationship immediately after the breakup you will know that he was just talking out his azz. If, however, his is single for the rest of this year, then know that he just couldn’t take it anymore.

    “You can’t get enough of what you don’t want” is a famous Wayne Dyer quote and it is so true.

    In your next relationship I want you to Act as If. Act as if you are the most enticing, enchanting person in the world that no young hip tennis player can hold a candle to. Meaning at least keep your mouth shut. Guys are notoriously unskilled at making us feel better.

    Best,

    Inky

    February 25, 2019 at 2:32 pm #281799
    sparkle00
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    Why cant men be satisfied with what they have. And always try and get their partner to end things. Cowardly custards. And why are they always looking out for someone better or keeping their ex in the background like a backup.  Everywhere we go some girl makes eyes at him. The same type over and over, black hair, pointy nose. His exes all look like that too. So I doubt his attraction to me, cause Im opposite, Im fair,  small nose and round face with blond hair. And why do they give the line, I will be single for the rest of my life without you-righttttt. And if a man is taken, why do single women lower themselves to take happiness away from someone else. Cant they see hes with someone. When we started out he told his exes. Why. One even put her two cents in. Actually she still sends him a email once in awhile. I don’t think he loves me and wants her. Actually I worry she is the one and they will get back together.  I think she is waiting and missed out when she wouldn’t leave her country to relocate for him. The fact is she wouldn’t leave to start another life with him. Doesn’t that say how important he was to her. I would leave mine because I love him and see him as my priority.

    February 25, 2019 at 2:57 pm #281807
    sparkle00
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    And hes not intimate with me for the longest time.  He says its him not me. So I doubt his attraction and maybe im a fill in until something better comes along. And he never talks about marriage or nothing. He seems to think that I’m happy just cruising along with no real commitment. To some marriage is not important, to me yes. All these things have driven me crazy and contributed to my problems and our fights.  Im scared that somehow i’m a flatmate and I don’t know it.  I cant even contribute to paying off the house that he calls ours. I pay groceries and bits and pieces. Its frustrating,

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