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  • February 16, 2023 at 1:18 pm #415486
    Helcat
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    Hi Tee

    Thank you for trying, you are the only one who did.

    It’s really disappointing that it has come to this.

    I value being treat with and treating others with fairness, equality and kindness.

    It’s unfortunate that conflict cannot be resolved with one party, it takes all parties to do that.

    You are in my prayers.

    February 16, 2023 at 1:53 pm #415489
    Tee
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    Dear Helcat,

    I am sorry you’re leaving (I saw it in your reply to another member). I would have liked to keep discussing things, and perhaps get to some further revelations, regarding your dynamic with anita. I’ve shared some ideas in my post earlier today (post No 415443, on the thread “Anita’s Choice to Leave the Forums”), and if you feel they’re relevant, please consider them.

    I am sorry things turned out this way and that the conflict isn’t closer to being resolved.

    I wish you all the best, Helcat, and hope this is not your permanent leaving.

    Take care of yourself, and thank you so much for your prayers!

     

    February 17, 2023 at 5:35 am #415519
    Helcat
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    Hi Tee

    I take back my previous statement. Moderators did do something. I appreciate that feedback was taken on board. It helps to feel heard and not alone.

    Those experiences with my family are definitely triggers that make me feel hurt and make the situation more painful than it should. I can separate the reality of what is happening now from those experiences though.

    I’m not seeking approval. I was seeking civility. At best, I expected to be treat like a co-worker that isn’t liked.

    I said my piece, I feel heard. That was all I really wanted and needed. Thank you for that! Anita made her decision. She is free to @ me if she changes her mind. I just don’t want to live with unresolved conflict in my daily life. I will be fine. I have no hard feelings.

    I wish you all the best too! You help a lot of people and I wish we had gotten to know each other a little better before now. Good luck with your health. 🙏 ❤️

    February 18, 2023 at 12:31 am #415543
    Tee
    Participant

    Dear Helcat,

    I am glad that you feel heard and not alone in this.

    I wish anita were more open to feedback and others’ point of view… hopefully this will change in the future…

    I wish you all the best too, Helcat. And I appreciate your thoughts and prayers (insert praying hands emoticon here – I don’t know how to do it, the only emoticon I can produce is a smiley 🙂 )

    February 19, 2023 at 1:11 pm #415640
    Roberta
    Participant

    Dear Helcat

    Nearly all of us come up against situations/people that press our buttons.

    You have dispensed kindness & wisdom to many people on this site and your input will be greatly missed, & I hope that this site also equally gave you sustenance\support.

    If we learn to forbear something that cant at present be fixed to our liking, then things may change & grow in a way that could bring benefit  not only to ourselves but others.

    So I hope that you remain a contributor to this site.

    best wishes

    Roberta

    February 21, 2023 at 10:16 am #415679
    Helcat
    Participant

    Hi Roberta

    Thanks, I really appreciate your contributions on this forum too. You’re pretty awesome too!

    I hope to keep learning and developing my communication skills, empathy, emotional resilience and maturity.

    I think if I leave, that’s the largest chance Anita will return. If she is ever ready for us both to peacefully coexist I’ll be a message away.

    Until then thank you both!

    Wishing you all the best. You’re all in my thoughts and prayers. 🙏 ❤️

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