Hi Laven

I’m sorry that you are still having difficulties with your heartbreak. It does sound painful the first time you two bumped into each other post break up. You handled it impeccably. I think that your polite refusal to ignore him and to be ignored shows great character. You have really good boundaries for respecting his wishes.

It sounds like you’re starting to process the breakup and slowly move on. My hope is that it will get less painful for you a little day by day. Stay strong!

Love and best wishes! ❤️🙏

Dear Laven,

If I were a good person then I would say, …. (warning; watch out)

Forgive him so that you can let him go. Then build upon your own life with new people. Rejoice in the time you had with him. Don’t feel bad because he left. Feel good that you now have a new opportunity to grow beyond him and onto better things. So, learn to forgive. Make yourself whole again.

But, I am not a good person. I usually speak my mind and it upsets people. You know your situation is not healthy. You know. What are you going to do about it? Dwell in the sorrow and the hurt and the pain? You know. You know.

Tommy

Note: Despise me if you want but it won’t change the facts. You know.