Hi love! (you chose your nickname yourself. I am not being a chauvenist! 🙂 )

Before I share some advice I would appreciate if you tell me more about yourself. What are you doing about bettering yourself? What are your passions? What are your strenghts, your weekneses?

Thank you!

Matic

Hi Love,

Firstly, i’m sorry to hear you are having a difficult time, a break up is never easy. However, rather than concentrating on finding a new partner perhaps you could focus on what makes you happy. Is there any clubs you could join where you could meet new people, forge new friendships. You may find that by meeting new friends you’ll learn more about yourself and discover what type of person you enjoy spending time with. The old saying you find love when you are not looking for it is one that can be very true.

You say you are terrified of putting yourself back out there, don’t put so much pressure on yourself. Small steps can lead to big things.

Hope this help x

* Like Brian, I too like Matic’s questions (and joke) and looking forward to love’s answers. I often need to ask questions- the way to get more information, often necessary information for better understanding. And then there is also another thing: when a person asks for help and is asked questions (honest questions, questions-for-information, not otherwise)- and the person doesn’t answer the questions, it means to me that for some reason the person is not willing to invest in moving their own problem/s toward resolution, betterment.

anita